
no what’s concerning is you seeing a girl share that she’s just recently become an adult and you think it’s a perfect opportunity to make a move on a stranger. You defending yourself in these comments is only making you look more creepy, try to explain this to a person in your life because clearly you need a reality check
Yeah you can’t flip this around like you think you can you sick fuck. She JUST stopped being a teenager and your kneejerk reaction is to slide into her dms to check if she’s a virgin on an anonymous app? You’re disgusting and a loser and society would be better off without people like you
The issue is that a man who is seeking out newly adult VIRGIN women is the reason age of consent laws exist. They are seeking out girls who are as close as legally possible to being a child. If the age of consent did not exist, those are the kinds of men who would be creeping on little girls. Do you see why this behavior needs to be criticized?
i never said it didn’t need to be criticized i don’t agree with it at all so don’t twist it as if im on the other side. but just cause he MAY be a pedo this in itself may not be a case of pedophilia again the user could very well be younger then OP could even be a predatory 16 yr old at the end of the day we don’t know if it’s pedophilic or not but it is still very predatory and needs to be criticized as well
1. You assumed I was the actual one that sent that dm and not just trolling to rage bait people like you since you couldn’t comprehend how unlikely the person who sent that to someone in confessions would see it in Icks especially on an anonymous app. 2. You assumed he was a pedo even though he could very well be the same age, a misogynist that wanted to ridicule a girl for having sex, or a million other possibilities.
1. I didn’t believe it was you, but by pretending you were the person in the post, you were co-signing on that behavior. 2. A man who is ANONYMOUSLY and DELIBERATELY seeking VIRGIN women who JUST reached adulthood is a man who needs to be watched carefully- no matter what age he is. Hopefully you see the red flags there.
There’s another assumption. This could just as easily (unlikely but not impossible) be a woman looking for like minded women that are also virgins. Also no state as far as I’m aware do you just become an adult when you turn 20. This person has been a legal adult for 2 years now and the fact that you couldn’t understand by no longer a teen meant turning 20 and not turning 18 is honestly sad
The words she used were “I’ll never be a teenaged girl again”. What about that sentence makes a well-intentioned person (of any gender) want to hop in her DMs and say “you a virgin?” Again, by defending this person you’re co-signing that behavior. It doesn’t matter what gender or age the person is, the behavior in this context is inappropriate and needs to be criticized.