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Icks 1w
Ppl making their trauma their personality
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Anonymous 1w

If they’re playing the victim then yeah fs. Mfs sometimes find their personalities cuz of trauma and growing from it tho. Kinda just depends if they’re being the fucking worst about it I feel. Attention seeking ass mfs

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Anonymous 1w

Not victim shaming. There’s nothing wrong with being a victim of something/having trauma itself. No, I don’t accept those that don’t *try* to grow and instead live in stagnancy and negativity. Deal w it. It’s bad for them and everyone around. Toxic and energy draining asf.

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Anonymous 1w

SMD IM GONNA KEEP MAKING IT MY PERSONALITY 🤣🙌

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Yuck, sure as long as u stay tf away from me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

why would anyone want to be around a weird ass ableist bitch anyway LOOL

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Bruh I’m literally disabled.. I just don’t like miserable negative ppl who have a victim mindset like urself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

it’s not a mindset if i am actually a victim 🧏‍♀️ maybe you just have trauma you need to confront instead of projecting your insecurity onto others

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Yeah it is if u make it ur personality 💀 I acknowledge and confront my trauma so that I don’t stay stuck in the past and I’m able to focus on growth

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

not everyone is able to do that and victim shaming rather than being accepting or idk keeping your harmful shitty opinion to yourself is weird as fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Id argue that making victimhood ur whole personality is weird af and harmful but to each their own 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Wow OP you are on insensitive asshole, instead of judging these people maybe try to understand them. You should be ashamed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

telling victims to “deal with it” is so crazy. how can you say you’re not victim shaming but you’re quite literally shaming the behavior of a trauma victim? 😭 it’s people like you who worsen stigma and have that “just get over it” mindset. and sometimes, as a victim you will just have to live with that stagnancy and that might last the rest of your life cause that’s what trauma can do to you. i suggest reading up on ptsd or reading up in general since you seem to be unempathetic and illiterate.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Im understanding & supportive until 90% of conversations are about being abused, they use trauma as excuses to be shitty to others, etc. no thx.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I’m telling to deal with the way I think, not to deal with the trauma. I understand some ppl have had horrible things happen to them and it’s not a simple “just get over it” thing. Not what I’m saying at all. I just don’t like those who make trauma 90% of their conversations, use trauma as excuses for shitty behavior, etc.

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