
Yeah nobody wants kids is the problem that’s why they all try to justify abortion. Not because it’s moral or should be legal, it’s because they don’t want them. It does not make it okay. Unwanted babies are no different than babies. Ask any kid that was born a result of a failed abortion they choose life over death everytime.
the line depends on the circumstances, same as for other morally ambiguous questions. is killing wrong? sure, but if someone is breaking into your house and you think they're gonna kill you so you kill them first, that's widely accepted as justified, at least to some extent, and to different extents depending on the circumstances. i would say for fully elective abortions i would draw the line around the viability point
which is around 24 weeks. but i don't support laws based on that timeframe because they have a chilling effect which makes doctors scared to perform abortions past that point, even when medically necessary. i think it should be a medical guideline, not a law. as for medically necessary abortion, i don't think theres any point in a pregnancy where that would be morally wrong, because if it's necessary, it's a question of the mothers health, which trumps the fetus.
for states without abortion bans, elective abortions are not typically performed past the viability point. in general elective abortions tend to be earlier in pregnancy. if someone is aborting in the third trimester, its fairly safe to say that they did not want that to happen. why on earth would you carry a fetus you didn't want to have up to that point, instead of getting an early term abortion?
and if you aren't comfortable killing an embryo or early fetus, i would ask whether you feel comfortable killing bugs, livestock, pests, etc. and if so, why? even bugs arguably have a more developed CNS and sense of pain/desire to live than a fetus. livestock most certainly do. is it just because the cells in them are human rather than cow, or fly, or chicken?