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if you make a plan for us to do stuff and I show up on time but have to wait 20-30min for you, you suck. esp if the delay is bc you didn’t adequately prepare for the plans YOU made. you knew what we were doing. get a fucking grip
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Anonymous 9w

Especially when they don’t even text abt being late either. Then they get there and act shocked when you’re annoyed

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Anonymous 9w

no literally i’ll make plans w my friend and i ill lit have to lie and say its an hour before bc she always an hour late every time. she’ll never leave till 5 min before meet up time and its gonna take 40 min to even get there. like bro.

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Anonymous 9w

honestly if they’re your friend and you love them it’s not that big of a deal

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Anonymous 9w

I have a friend exactly like this and it is absolutely frustrating for anybody who is friends with her to make any plans 🫩 I am a very punctual individual so if I’m told a time, I will arrive by that time, but even when she makes the plans, she will be anywhere from 30 minutes to 2 hours late so I’ve learned to just stay inside until an actual update happens

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Anonymous 9w

Yeah i always make sure to push it back if i think im going to be late

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Anonymous 9w

Literally happened to me today girl was 30 minutes late and she was the one to pick the time

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Anonymous 9w

Bruh a friend invited me to her birthday picnic an hr away from where I live, I drove and arrived 20 minutes late, she wasn’t there so I waited, an hr and half went by waiting in my car. I called her again and she was still getting ready…I kissed my teeth and went back home.

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Anonymous 8w

Especially after youve already expressed that its not cool and then they just do not care. Theyll roll up 30 min late, no apology or excuse but mad that youre mad. If i told you that makes me mad and then you keep doing it.. well im gonna be mad.

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Anonymous 9w

I’m sorry mommy I have ADHD

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

It's just a communication thing. If you just tell them you're late it's not a big deal. If you're purposely leaving late and not saying anything that's whack

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

this^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

5-10min wouldn’t be a big deal. but being consistently half an hour late is a serious time management issue. for some stuff it really fucks w/ my scheduling. and for other things it puts undue pressure on me (like if we have a set time we need to be somewhere and now i’m stressing about being behind schedule bc of you)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

i’ll get a “be there in a few” text which to me means <10min, but in reality she’ll take like 20min like?? ofc I’m irritated i waited like twice as long as I thought I had to

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Why are you calling a stranger mommy

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Sorry mommy I’ll won’t do it again

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

i also have ADHD lmao it’s not an excuse

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