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Icks 13w
men who think they have a say in what you should wear and where you can go
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Anonymous 13w

To a certain extent they should have an opinion but at the end of the day it is your decision. It’s not controlling, it’s about respect

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Anonymous 13w

I tell girls all the time COMMUNICATE THIS IN THE BEGINNING. Because if not, you’ll always have these problems. These men are also out here jealous of their women, so be careful ladies. A man who feels inferior will try to make you feel the same.

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Anonymous 13w

only if it's a dad to a daughter or bf when gf is going somewhere where dressing promiscuous isn't good

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Anonymous 13w

Literally my ex

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Anonymous 13w

Say in: sure. The final word? Absolutely not.

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Anonymous 13w

or what you should or should not do with your body

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Anonymous 13w

You know why they do that right?

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Anonymous 12w

The only exception: “you said doing ___ would make you feel good” or “you mentioned wanting (to do) ___ so I wanted to help” with an option to say no.

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Anonymous 13w

We kinda do 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

yes true to that, but coming off as “who are you trying to impress” is a horrible approach that i’ve experienced

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Anonymous 13w

what in the andrew tate 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

Because they’re controlling?

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Anonymous replying to -> merc_azz 13w

because they care about them lmao. A guy that doesn’t care what his gf wears does not see her as longterm/marriage material

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

It’s not that I don’t care it’s just that I’m happy with whatever she chooses.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 13w

the fuck?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

the guy should be comfortable in both himself and his partner to not feel any way of what she might wear. he should support her and encourage her to wear what she feels comfortable in

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

But why doesn’t the girlfriend also get to pick what he wears?

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Anonymous replying to -> merc_azz 13w

Good point and maybe this is a hot take but I think couples vetting EACHOTHERS outfits is very reasonable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13w

As long as it’s out of a place of genuine care and isn’t possessive seems fine by me

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Hes arrested 🥳🎉🎉🎉

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