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The reason straight men are in sexless marriages/relationships is because they aren’t making their woman orgasm. No woman would consistently turn down a good sexual encounter, and the sooner we stop blaming women for “withholding” sex, the better.
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Anonymous 7w

It's not even just orgasms. It's the lack of awareness around consent and rape culture. The idea that you can withhold sex is directly linked to rape culture and the idea that you owe a partner intimate time with your body when that's not at all how it should be.

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Anonymous 7w

not ONLY is there an orgasm gap- aka men not being able to make women orgasm men also usually expect women to do all of the domestic labor- cook, clean, laundry, grocery shopping, work, raising kids... women lose attraction to men who they see as dependent. women arent attracted to men who cant even wash the dishes... psychologically speaking, why would we be attracted to someone acting like our child?

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Anonymous 7w

Because emotional reasons or relationship issues don’t matter right? Smh

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Anonymous 7w

... your religion doesnt apply to me or anybody who isnt christian. im a feminist and i dont believe in your god. and what you're saying changes absolutely nothing about what i said, and the peer reviewed study that i cited

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Anonymous 7w

"My personal rule book says that women need to act like a dog and obey so you all need to do the same" ☝️🤓

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Anonymous 7w

Because they were forced to and if they didn't they were physically abused. Hope this helps!

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Anonymous 7w

you're a random person disagreeing with multiple peer reviewed and credible studies from sociologists and professional academics. it doesnt really matter what you think when you have nothing backing you up

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Anonymous 7w

i literally do not give af bro. keep your stories to yourself

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Anonymous 7w

no. anyways, do you have anything meaningful to add to the conversation or are you going to try to force your beliefs on everyone? i gave studies and hard evidence. meanwhile you're trying to convert people. wyd bro

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Anonymous 7w

ok bud

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Anonymous 7w

not everyone follows your religion so you cant just tell us what to do. im not sure why you think thats an ok thing to do

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Anonymous 7w

the "random article" is a peer reviewed study.... you would know that if you read it. the information found was objective, proven with data & the scientific method. theres nothing to disagree with because objective findings do not care about your feelings or your religion. bringing your god into it & trying to convert everyone means you're ignoring what doesnt agree with your world view.

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Anonymous 7w

this conversation isnt going to go anywhere if you genuinely believe a peer reviewed study..... is on the same level of credibility as a 2,000 year old book full of magic that has been rewritten and edited and changed since its inception good bye.

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Anonymous 7w

Well my mom actually kept her last name and I got to choose to use either one or both of their last names when I turned 18 because if anything my mom is the head of the household as she is the one who brought my life into the world. Though they don't fall for that bs so they just work as equals since they're a team. And when I get married next fall, I'm gonna keep my last name because my partner's last name is kinda long lol

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Anonymous 7w

are you aware that people come from different cultures, and women taking their husband's last name is largely a western european phenomenon?

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Anonymous 7w

Well my mom was baptized Greek Orthodox and my dad Catholic but they don't really care cause there's more to life than worshiping something. They loved each other, got married because of said love, had kids starting about 7 years into their marriage, and have lived happily ever since. Guess that's the joy of living, you don't have to follow the same book as your neighbor 😊

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Anonymous 7w

bruh i'm an atheist but who are you to judge somebody else's relationship with god? why do you care what their parents do? you seem to really like policing ppl and shoving your beliefs down everybody's throat

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Anonymous 7w

That's why I said she was baptized as that lol. She isn't trying to be Christian, she was just dunked into some water by and old Greek man when she was a baby

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Anonymous 7w

LMFAO please let it go man

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Anonymous 7w

you're trying to convince everybody else to follow your religion.... on a post that has nothing to do with religion. talking to you wont go anywhere

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Anonymous 7w

u saying "obey ur husband" "you should want to do those things" "the husband lives in the greater world and the wife in the smaller world" ... it doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure that you're talking about christian ideas. then u said "god bless" and then u confirmed that i was right again that i was correct by talking about god some more. dont pretend like ur very first comment wasnt directly from the bible. i clocked it. we both know that it was

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Anonymous 7w

your very first comment into the conversation was that "you should want to do those things" referring to doing domestic labor and obeying a man who are you to tell women what we should and shouldnt want? women are individuals and dont all want the same thing. do better

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Even couples with emotional issues or relationship problems won’t go extremely long lengths without sex if it’s mutually enjoyable.

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Anonymous 7w

again, different dynamics in relationships exist outside of your world view. you didnt even begin to think that there are hundreds of cultures other than yours where women dont take their husbands last name bud... you seem to be uninformed. women dont have to act a certain way, and neither do men. live the life YOU want. and you can do that without telling grown adults what they should be doing.

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Anonymous 7w

what are you talking about??? leave if i dont like the culture? you're genuinely losing the plot. im not imposing anything on you 💀💀 you're the one who tried converting me, told me how exactly women should be acting, and what we should enjoy (based on your religion... which i do not follow or care about) you're making a lot of baseless assumptions lmao🤔

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Anonymous 7w

what culture am i imposing on you? what have i done besides ask you not to force ur religion onto people who dont want you to💀💀💀

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Anonymous 7w

if you like that, good for you. but not everybody wants that or believes what you do. thats all im saying

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Anonymous 7w

Dude don't call my mom a sheep that's mad disrespectful. How would you feel if I called you a cow?

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Anonymous 7w

lmao and you're not getting everybody elses point either. because you're still rambling on about your religion that nobody wants to hear

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Anonymous 7w

nobody is doing anything wrong, we're just living lives that arent exactly the way you like. thats a big difference and you're mixing them up

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Anonymous 7w

Okay so I wanna respect other's opinions but how dare you call god greater than my Mom. I don't see her flooding the entire damn world cause people are assholes

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Anonymous 7w

so ur doubling down and basically saying "my world view is the correct one and you're all broken. you're going against gods will" ..... you're either ignoring what we're all saying or you're socially unaware😭🙏

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Anonymous 7w

Ok but your god didn't create my mom... My grandma and grandpa did. And personally, I think my mom is cooler than any god. But that's just me 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 7w

i get my morality by weighing the societal benefits vs harm of an action. i support actions that benefit peoples happiness, free will, safety, as well as the environment. i back up my morals with objective facts that are backed by science, studies, and history. this is a school of thought called consequentialism & utilitarianism, and i rely on science. also, various societies had laws to follow before christianity ever existed, those aren't unique to christianity

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Anonymous 7w

are you even reading anything that we comment? we. don't. believe. what you do. but. you. won't. stop. talking about it. you're wasting your time while also making your religion look really bad. you are why people dislike christians. because you don't respect peoples boundaries when we aren't interested, and you call us wrong and tell us how to live. congratulations you're pushing more ppl away from your god ❤️❤️❤️

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Anonymous 7w

He's greater because he's himself..? Geez y'all talk about humility but that's kinda egotistical ngl. Is this why Mother's Day is a big thing but god's Day isn't? Does he even have a holiday?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

calling us egotistical while you call us all wrong and tell us how to live our lives. you can't make this up folks

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

No I was calling his god egotistical. I'm the person with the really cool mom, not the one in love with sky daddy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

no ik u were talking about him! i'm just saying he's the one with the ego problem and is hiding it behind god & righteousness

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Anonymous 7w

Dude you're really taking Mother's day and making it about some guy??? Rude. After everything you've said, I think you just hate women or at the very least can't appreciate a woman... Or spell "you" and "are"

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Anonymous 6w

Nah I think you just don't know how to spell basic words lmao

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Anonymous 6w

How do u know the creators of the bible didn’t twist the story to fit their narrative? Genuine question I believe Jesus was a great guy but I don’t agree with all of the stuff in the bible. Who is to decide or pick and choose what we follow ?

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Anonymous 6w

Thanks, I’m spiritual now but was Catholic growing up. I didn’t realize Jesus claimed to be the messiah, I have heard people say he called himself a normal guy. Also I thought the Roman’s killed him? I can be wrong

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Anonymous 6w

Shut the fuck up your God is not real

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Anonymous 6w

I’ll pray to your God if he closes the Orgasm gap between men and women.

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