I remember being in middle school trying to learn how to be a man all by myself but it seemed like all the women I knew already hated me simply for being born a man. It’s already incredibly easy to fall into the manosphere as a teenage boy and a lot of men need to know people believe that there is such a thing as a good man and they can become one. “No good men” takes away the responsibility to become good bc nobody expects it from you

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Crucially I don't see how it's feminist to want women to be as hypervigilant and scared as possible

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