Hot Takes on Sidechat | My hot take is that if you say you are a feminist and against traditional gender norms then you shouldn't see the guy as the provider and expect money from him. Also prefering to date tall guys too is pretty traditional aswell

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Hot Takes 1w

My hot take is that if you say you are a feminist and against traditional gender norms then you shouldn't see the guy as the provider and expect money from him. Also prefering to date tall guys too is pretty traditional aswell

Anonymous 6d

first part yes, second part no it’s just personal preference and doesn’t exactly fall in line with traditional views

Anonymous 1w

i agree with the first part but the second part is just preference as part of physical attractiveness. i’m a tall girl, and while i’ve dated shorter guys than me and taller guys than me, people have a right to date who they want to and shouldn’t feel obligated to date someone they find unattractive

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#2 6d

I don't believe so bc they will advocate for body positivity and not being shallow to like someone only for their looks but then make fun of men who are shorter than them. Also traditionally the men are bug and strong while the women or docile, gentle, and smaller

Anonymous

#1 6d

I'm talking about girl only dating taller guys is just apart of the gender norms that the guy is a strong manly provider while the girl is submissive and need to be taken care of

Anonymous

OP 6d

i don’t really get this. i’m a tall girl and i have traits that you would describe as more “masculine” and ive dated shorter men and men that are more “feminine.” that shits all a social construct anyways. but it’s not really a good look to sit around and complain about people’s personal preferences. you’re not gonna convince people to date you, and it’s only gonna reinforce the idea that it’s a bigger deal than it is.