Hot Takes on Sidechat | nobody enjoys poverty, obviously. people in poverty just have less access to sexual education, contraceptives, and healthcare services. planned parenthood isnt available everywhere

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Hot Takes 1d

nobody enjoys poverty, obviously. people in poverty just have less access to sexual education, contraceptives, and healthcare services. planned parenthood isnt available everywhere

Hot Takes 1d

At what point do people just admit they are selfish and have loads of kids because it’s a fetish. Like you don’t work, your spouse makes under 60 grand a year and you have 7 kids. You enjoy the poverty, idc how you frame it.

Anonymous 22h

I might be wrong here but I relate fetish to sexual arousal or pleasure. Like if the father keeps impregnating her because he loves pregnant pussy of the baby bump aesthetic. This seems more like exploiting the system or a byproduct of the Bible Belt and create a legacy propaganda

Anonymous 1d

I think calling it a fetish is reductive. It’s a lot of these things - the lack of education and access to healthcare. But also to a certain degree it is selfishness if you’re just having way more kids than you could possibly care for. Not really a fetish (although I’m sure some people have that), but probably just carrying out an unrealistic dream of theirs.

Anonymous 1d

Except people must find it a challenge they must conquer and decide well let me have 3+ kids in this situation.

Anonymous

#1 1d

use basic empathy or shut up. nobody is having a kid because itd be funny

Anonymous

OP 1d

But they are, if one couple in same situation limits themselves to one kid but another in the same identical situation says no I’m going to keep having kids, they enjoy it. I don’t need to have empathy for stupid people.

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Anonymous

#2 1d

and youre only allowed to have dreams if you have money, as we all know

Anonymous

#2 1d

Yeah so I’m OP of the quoted post, it’s not reductive for calling it as what it is and being displayed as. It’s a fetish, a woman just admitted she has kids because she gets welfare until they are 7 yrs old. She’s currently on her 7th who just turned 2 and is going to try again cause why not. Thats not selfish and a fetish. There are children who cutoff whole families because of how extreme the neglect is or because they become tertiary parents in a house they are supposed to be a child.

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Anonymous

#1 1d

I don’t see how what you just described is a fetish, sounds like selfishness.

Anonymous

OP 1d

It’s not a fair system but children still suffer from people’s choices

Anonymous

#2 1d

That’s a form of fetish doing something and be addicted to it - creating children because you like what you get out of it - the welfare.

Anonymous

#1 8h

Every class has people within it that figure out how to play the system. As they say don’t hate the playa hate the game. Just bc a child turns seven doesn’t mean they don’t cost money and time. For a large portion of Americans it’s either work so much you never see your kids, marry rich, or scam the system just to survive. We can’t all be Musk rats 🐀 Oh and you aren’t describing a fetish you’re describing desperation Ps if you need a visual representation I’d suggest Idiocracy lolol

Anonymous

#4 8h

It’s a fetish definition of fetish is not inherently sexual. Fetish (n) can be defined as a fixation, or an object of irrational reverence or obsessive devotion; per merriam Webster. Her fixation is on having babies and collecting welfare till they are 7 not the kids or their wellbeing, she has an obsessive devotion of continuing to have kids to remain on welfare, that’s a fetish. All of you in here not knowing a fetish doesn’t have to be sexual isn’t my problem.

Anonymous

#1 8h

Bruh get help for your mommy issues and stop projecting onto the world.

Anonymous

#4 8h

Except I have great relationship with my father, for you to assume that is a projection in and of itself you know quite telling. Please reflect and go talk to your mother clearly she or your father must’ve dropped you a time or two.

Anonymous

#4 8h

*relationship with my father and mother