I ended with saying “being gay sucks” was because generally, negative experiences (with regards to being gay) aren’t taken as seriously, despite often being far more violent. It’s often taken as one’s own fault. Also, for me, I couldn’t even tell parents.
Hooked up with a guy last year, agreed to give head, then he shoved my face into his pillow (he was like 6’3 and I’m 5’7 M) and fucked me. Genuinely hurt. Being gay kinda sucks.