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I am terrified to bring up trying new positions with my bf, we've been together 1 year and have spooned, missionary and cowgirl. PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!!
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Anonymous 15h

just ask him if you guys could try a new position out. if it doesn't work out, laugh it off and do one you guys know is good. try a new one the next time

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Anonymous 14h

Just do it just get into the position

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Anonymous 14h

goof around and look at an article online with different sex positions and if any look fun say you should try it- i’ve done this many times

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Anonymous 4h

lowkey me and my ex always tried new stuff when we were drunk😭 both horny asf and down to try whatever lol. maybe not good advice but that’s what worked for me, and then what we liked we incorporated into our normal sex routine.

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Anonymous 12h

Most important thing I think, is to just sit down together and talk about it. Tell him you want to try new things, talk about why, make sure you address each other’s boundaries and if you guys can agree to try something, go for it. If it doesn’t work out, have a backup plan or just stop for a little bit, continue on and chat about it afterward, regardless of if it went good or bad. That’s always helped me with my relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

Is this actual advice…or a, I going to look stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

i mean.. if he's that loopy (bc he's lost in you), he might get more turned on..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Girl you will not look stupid just say I want to try like this he will be turned on

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 34m

Honestly in my opinion this is doing too much. If you want to try a new sex position just say that. If it’s not good then laugh it off and go back to one you guys know well. Sex is deep (at least emotionally) and all but it doesn’t need to be treated like something that’s gonna make or break the relationship if it’s not. 🤷‍♂️

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