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Broke up with my boyfriend, told him I’m not into anal, and he responded “I’m your dom if I say your into anal, you’re into anal.” I have never left a man so fast
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Anonymous 4d

Bro thought he want in a edit 💀

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Anonymous 4d

Definitely dodged a nuke with that one😭

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Anonymous 4d

Real doms respect boundary’s

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Anonymous 4d

Wow this is why BDSM gets a bad rep…men….

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Anonymous 4d

Negative aura for him. Guys into anal are such a red flag because they’re always like this.

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Anonymous 4d

it’s giving this

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Anonymous 4d

Bro thought this was Wattpad

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Anonymous 4d

good for you girl i would ran so fast

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Anonymous 4d

Hey so that’s not how that fucking works!! Glad you left that pos

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Anonymous 4d

makes me glad my man is respectful and gentle😝 THEY ARE OUT THERE LADIES DW

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Anonymous 4d

EWWWWWWWW THAT IS NOT HOW DOM/SUB DYNAMICS WORK. Glad you got the FUCK out of there

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Anonymous 4d

He doesn’t know how bdsm works 😭

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Anonymous 4d

That is not how A Dom / Sub relationship works…your Dom is supposed to protect you, make you feel safe, LISTEN to you!

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Anonymous 3d

Stop he probably practiced that in the mirror 😭😭

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Anonymous 4d

The way I was stunned

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Anonymous 4d

Sometimes boundaries r pushed and stuff and that can be redirected but if he actually thinks he has any claim over your body he’s mentally ill babe. For future some signs r: guys that listen to podcasts, racial egoism, misogynistic or weird comments. All signs point to there’s no way he’s gonna respect you

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Anonymous 4d

HELP

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Anonymous 3d

Where are you guys finding these villains

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Anonymous 4d

Omg did we date the same guy…

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Anonymous 3d

i feel like you need to say his name for safety precautions ☠️

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Anonymous 4d

yuck.

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Anonymous 3d

Anal nasty even as a dude

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Anonymous 3d

oh helll nahhh

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Anonymous 3d

He thought he was in a wattpad book or something

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Anonymous 3d

So proud of you!!!!

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Anonymous 3d

UGH I LIKE IT

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Anonymous 4d

Wait can I have his #

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Anonymous replying to -> eepycar 4d

I mean I like the feeling of anal but I quit doing it with my ex because she would become like constipated for a day or so after and I felt bad even though she said she was ok to keep doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 4d

ofc

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 4d

There was no asking he was straight demanding

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 4d

Why

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 4d

Yesss

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

yeah that’s awful, I’m glad you got out of there. there are so many guys who wanna be a dom while ignoring all of the most important parts of bdsm & it’s ridiculous.

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 4d

I hope not

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

If we did I’m sorry sister 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4d

Was this after douching? I wasn’t aware that was a side effect, but it makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 4d

uhm… ew?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Im realizing yall are taking this the wrong way and I should’ve elaborated. I just wanted to prank call him 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 4d

oh my gosh that makes more sense. i was like why would u want this scum?😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 4d

It does depend. Some people like sadomasochism. Seems like he was tryna go off script and do things they didn’t talk about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

He truly has said this exact sentence to me multiple times and was very fixated on anal and that I could never disagree with him

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 3d

Everywhere! People know that they aren’t treating their partner well and hide the fact that they do that. There isn’t one man running at the speed of light to rape women, it’s the people that you’re friends with who you know have weird relationships with women, the people who you don’t call out because it “doesn’t affect you” or you “don’t want to start anything” with. I wish people held their friends accountable so that the world could be a safer place

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3d

Most guys that wanna be dominant think like that in my experience. His way or no way. They secretly have a r*pe kink cause if you ever say stop they’ll say no since they don’t want to stop

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 3d

Safe words are so important 😭😭😭 like cnc is cool and all but please please be safe yall

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 3d

Really? It makes me need to shit 🫠😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 3d

Yeah that’s a thing sometimes. I’ve known some who’d have to shit like 3-4 times the next hour or two, I’ve also known some who would be unable to shit for 2-3 days after

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 3d

I’m dead

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 3d

OH THATS so much better okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 3d

yeah but even in sadomasochism you should never feel genuinely in real danger. It’s still all discussed, consensual, and safe. If they had discussed this previously and it was a like cnc thing and she was actually into it it’d be completely different. But they didn’t and she wasn’t so it’s creepy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3d

That’s just not how those guys think, they think them being dominant=you cannot say no to what they want. It’s just how they think the guy I was with literally said “I was born this way I can’t change it”

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