Sometimes boundaries r pushed and stuff and that can be redirected but if he actually thinks he has any claim over your body he’s mentally ill babe. For future some signs r: guys that listen to podcasts, racial egoism, misogynistic or weird comments. All signs point to there’s no way he’s gonna respect you
Everywhere! People know that they aren’t treating their partner well and hide the fact that they do that. There isn’t one man running at the speed of light to rape women, it’s the people that you’re friends with who you know have weird relationships with women, the people who you don’t call out because it “doesn’t affect you” or you “don’t want to start anything” with. I wish people held their friends accountable so that the world could be a safer place
yeah but even in sadomasochism you should never feel genuinely in real danger. It’s still all discussed, consensual, and safe. If they had discussed this previously and it was a like cnc thing and she was actually into it it’d be completely different. But they didn’t and she wasn’t so it’s creepy.