
I'm with beeestboy - some people have a more casual dynamic and prank each other regularly. In fact, in a response OP posted before yours the roommate was trying to get him back for something. I think it's fairly safe to say that most likely both of them kind of take it to the max with ranking or the roommate wasn't expecting the guy to come home with someone. I can very well see a scenario where it was the latter and the roommate was so stunned it took him a moment to do anything
Sure, maybe the guy was intentionally being weird. However, the fact that the other options I presented are just as, if not more, feasible should really demonstrate that we don't know enough to call this sexual harrasment. Someone trying to pull a small prank on their roommate by scaring them, assuming the roommate did not know the guy was bringing someone home, should never constitute as harasment Imo
I personally wouldn’t consider it sexual harassment as the situation didn’t make me feel uncomfortable or unsafe, it just kinda made the lust wear off. I truly did find it to be a funny situation and both guys involved seemed to be very apologetic and more freaked about it than I was. They also paid for the uber there and back to my place so all was well aha
well as long as you weren’t bothered by it then it doesn’t really matter cause that’s the most important part. i just know that i personally would have been incredibly uncomfortable and probably would have felt a little violated. but as long as you feel ok then it’s not a big deal