Anonymous #1 3w

Thanknyou

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Anonymous #3 3w

It sounds crazy uncomfortable n awkward

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It just seems uncommon, I heard abt ppl linking up without hanging out

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Anonymous OP 3w

it is 😭 my friends would always make fun of me for having no experience so i tried just getting it over with this rando on hinge but it was so awkward and awful

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Anonymous #4 3w

I got lucky and met her with a friend, which made it less awkward for me, thankfully😭😭

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Anonymous OP 3w

i think that’s dangerous tbh, especially as a woman.

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Anonymous #1 3w

Agreed big time on that sis

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Anonymous OP 3w

i’ve done it, one thing i’ve learned as a woman is that you really have to carry the entire interaction/conversation or else it’ll always be awkward. so i just act super nonchalant and he usually matches my energy. then we have a p good/decent hookup maybe cuddle talk about video games (makes it easier to talk to guys when ur talking about video games) and then tell him to leave

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Anonymous #5 3w

“And then tell him to leave” is funny😭😭nah that’s really how it went for me, I’m shy so idk what to say to start a conversation

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Anonymous OP 3w

hahah yea that last part is crucial cuz some of them be lingering😭 but yeah that’s super real and i used to be shy but i came to realize that these interactions are legit practice for other uncomfortable social interactions bc you’ll never see them again, i just practice my smoothness in conversation and ive got better at it, just talk about whatever pops up in your mind but also it’s hard to not ramble… i probably sound like a slut lol but i don’t do it that much

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Anonymous #5 3w

What? Nah you’re explaining how hookups improved your social skills, which is surprising to me honestly, it’s cool to hear you just say whatever since it won’t have any repurcussions😭😭😭

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Anonymous #6 3w

i’ve had good sex with people i would never hang out with

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Anonymous #2 3w

i have too, but the frequency of that is much less than the opposite

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Anonymous OP 3w

Frr or like when people don’t talk about kinks beforehand. How do yall people know what to do 😭

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Anonymous #3 3w

First hookup shouldnt even be kinky imo like just chill and figure each other out. If it's good then u go from there 😭

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Anonymous #6 3w

Yeah I guess that’s true too. Idrk tbh 😭 I’ve never done hook ups

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Anonymous #7 3w

💀 yes. you would.

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Anonymous #6 3w

I mean I at least talk with them first but I’ve only had like one guy suggest we go out and get something to eat beforehand 😭 and he ghosted me so…but like a lot of men can’t even do the bare minimum so I ig shouldn’t be surprised

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Anonymous #7 3w

if they cant do the bare minimum then don't meet them.

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Anonymous #6 3w

Well yea I learned that the hard way. But I’ve been celibate for a while so there’s that

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Anonymous #6 3w

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Anonymous OP 3w

kms

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Anonymous #6 3w

My fault I’m sorry

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Anonymous OP 3w

67!!! ❤️

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Anonymous OP 3w

67

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Anonymous #7 3w

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous #5 3w

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous OP 3w

no don’t apologize

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Anonymous #3 3w

honestly most hookups are very vanilla, but me personally i always ask “what do you like?” and sometimes they’ll have something specific, but most times people just say they like anything lol

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Anonymous #5 3w

Yeah idk if I ever to hook up with someone, I don’t think I’d want it to be very basic or vanilla. I’d rather the person know my likes and dislikes so I can enjoy myself

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Anonymous #6 3w

i feel like a child when i saw #6 > #7 and realized there are like 5 other comments like this

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Anonymous #3 3w

extremely valid it’s def not for everyone

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Anonymous #3 3w

Exactlyyyyy

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Anonymous #8 3w

Don’t feel like one, oh wise Yik Yakker

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Anonymous #8 3w

Oh poor you, at least you were save

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