Hookup Horror Stories on Sidechat | Things were getting hot n heavy, he was taking my clothes off. Suddenly he stopped, and in a full on fucking Tumblr moment, he kissed the scars on my arms and asked why I would do that to myself. I was attacked by a dog as a child.

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Hookup Horror Stories 25w

Things were getting hot n heavy, he was taking my clothes off. Suddenly he stopped, and in a full on fucking Tumblr moment, he kissed the scars on my arms and asked why I would do that to myself. I was attacked by a dog as a child.

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Anonymous 25w

bro once had this w stretch marks i’m like yeah man for sure i 100% obviously picked the back of my butt and thighs to SH

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Anonymous 25w

also like.. even if they were SH scars, what are you supposed to say?? i have scars and whenever someone asks about them i’m just like bro i was depressed and wanted to die idk what to tell you

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Anonymous 25w

i have self harm scars and if anyone ever tries ts with me im kicking them out

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Anonymous 25w

Is it just me who would find it sweet tho (only if it were like a longterm bf tho)

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Anonymous 25w

I skipped from the first sentence to the last one holy fucking shit

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Anonymous 25w

that’s kinda funny if anything lowkey

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Anonymous 25w

wait that’s kinda sweet..idk he didn’t know😭😭😭

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Anonymous 24w

I did the opposite of that, when my ex and I were first cuddling I asked her what surgery she got on her legs only for her to go “oh uhhhh actually” and I dropped the topic so fast 😭

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Anonymous 25w

He a little (lot) confused but he got the right spirit.. I think?

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Anonymous 24w

i have sh scars, both old and somewhat recent. this girl i’m talking to knows how insecure they make me and she told me she’d kiss my arm and show it a lot of love and appreciation which meant a lot but it was the right moment. id have been a bit taken aback if this happened to me 😭😭

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Anonymous 25w

I would’ve left omg

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Anonymous 24w

people are so oblivious, as someone whose self-harmed and has the scars it would make me SO mad for someone to decide to bring that up to my face. yeah boo, I definitely want to talk about the worst period of my life rn.

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Anonymous 24w

I understand being concerned and as maybe a long term partner bringing it up / asking about it. But while trying to get intimate is not the time or place…. like I don’t want to think about when I wanted to die right before sex I want to think about my partner and the present.

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Anonymous 24w

I was attacked by a child as a dog

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Anonymous 24w

omg brooo 😭😭 i have scars on my arms n the first time my bf saw them he was like "oh no! my cat got you??" but as soon as i was like errrrr he dropped it,, what is wrong w people dawg

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Anonymous 24w

This would be so hot if I was 14 still reading wattpad

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Anonymous 24w

oh god

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Anonymous 24w

😂😂😂😂

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Anonymous 24w

I’m burning with second hand embarrassment

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Anonymous 24w

I would crack tf up ngl fuck sex I’m laughing for half an hour

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Anonymous

#2 25w

Bro I’m crying bc why would he even assume that, and then ruin the mood by asking 😭😭😭

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Anonymous 25w

Dog?

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Anonymous

#13 25w

Fr like give the man some grace, he was trying to be kind

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#15 25w

It’s not kind to point out scars in the first place. Literally just be normal about it. Like a respectful question is fine but bro, time and place. It wasn’t respectful to ask me that question in that way at that time

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3crows_in_a_trenchcoat 25w

Nah this would be weird regardless

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Anonymous

#20 24w

nah that’s terrible but nothing you can do

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Anonymous

#2 24w

same oh my god. we were just sitting around casually and he starts looking at me with the saddest puppy dog face asking “what are these” and im just like are u fucking idiot 😭

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Anonymous

#2 24w

look as someone who used to self harm I actually mainly did cut on my the front and back of my upper thighs and lower lower stomach… sometimes even somewhat near my breasts cause I knew those were the places people were least likely to see or find out about ever

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Anonymous

#5 24w

same, idk 😭 something about someone addressing them makes my insides swirl around (not in a good way 🫩)

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Anonymous 24w

True. I used to do the bottoms of my feet because my heels would heal back.

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Anonymous

#28 24w

I used to do that too

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Anonymous

#31 24w

this is hot because i’m 20 and reading wattpad

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Anonymous

#2 24w

My ex primarily would cut her thighs, especially her hips because they weren’t visible. She specifically chose spots that no one would see so she could get away with it, so it’s really not that out of the question

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Anonymous

#22 24w

people really think that we’re just poor lost souls who need their sympathy and shining light to help us be real people and not just sadbrained losers

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Anonymous

#21 24w

It’s both. I like when people are nice to me.

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Anonymous

#9 24w

if you had them then you wouldn’t. They’re not anything special, just a reminder of the worst time of your life so it’s insanely disrespectful for someone to bring them up all the time

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Anonymous

#8 24w

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OP 24w

i’m sorry

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Anonymous

#8 24w

Don’t be sorry sister. Be better.

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Anonymous

#31 24w

would being a man make it worse or better?

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Anonymous

#8 24w

dawg 🫩

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3crows_in_a_trenchcoat 24w

people act like because they didn’t openly laugh in your face and taunt you about it that you’re obligated to respond well to their pity/questioning/tumblr response.

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Anonymous

#21 24w

I recognize most people don’t but I’ve been in multiple relationships where I have broached the topic, but not like that. I’ve absolutely looked at someone and been really gentle about it. I don’t catch them off guard with something heavy and that is a reminder of really bad days, but I will say that I’ve had the spots where mine were kissed by someone before and when they’ve told me they’re glad I’m still here and that I’m still beautiful it made me feel the most loved I had in a while.

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Anonymous

#36 24w

Again, I know that isn’t a lot of people’s experiences but I did want to put out a good experience because I recognize that there’s good intentions behind some people doing this and I do want those people to know that the thought they have counts even if they probably shouldn’t act on it/broach it that way (it’s perfectly acceptable to just say “I’m glad you’re here” on a bad day!!! It gets the same point across without making things extremely emotional for the other person!)

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#21 24w

I mean, i didn’t do traditional self harm but i do have some faint scars from when I did. I’d find it kinda sweet and healing. Like if it was a genuine moment of care and intimacy. I kinda see them as something i made it past (mostly)

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Anonymous

#36 24w

Aww, yes. you see thats what I find sweet

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OP 24w

You could’ve told him that though, you could’ve had an adult conversation and said “hey these are from a traumatic event and I find that you made this assumption extremely disrespectful.” He was trying his best to be kind and make you feel loved, he obviously didn’t realize how intrusive he was being

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#15 24w

Brother you’re acting like I’ve told you all about some crazy ass reaction I had to that comment when I have actually said NOTHING about the conversation that followed that comment he made 💀

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