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The most horrifying story is how many of y’all experienced assault or rape and didn’t believe it till someone on this app told you
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Anonymous 7w

Yep I didn’t even know my ex raped me and I had to be told by friends that it was. I think a lot of people commit sa in many ways because no one especially men are taught the guidelines of consent

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Anonymous 7w

It’s honestly sad

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Anonymous 7w

My bsf made me realize it ): and I’m still unsure to that point where I want to ask someone from my college health center

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Anonymous 7w

my high school ex pretended to be a trans guy cuz at the time i thought i was just gay, so she knew she’d have zero chance with me unless she pretended to be trans, and all of that was just to use me for sex

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Anonymous 7w

My ex would sa me and I didn’t realize until I was talking to my supervisor at work about him and she said I should just say no to him and I had to stop myself from telling her I had already tried that

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Anonymous 7w

One of the most worst moments I’ve ever experienced was when my freshman yr roommate was talking to me about her body count and then she got to an incident that I could tell was SA. She realized it as she was talking to me and the look on her face was just fucking devastating. My heart goes out to anyone who’s ever been through this 💜

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Anonymous 7w

It’s a cope, it’s kinda something you don’t want to believe happened to you if that makes sense? Giving it a name makes it feel real

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Anonymous 7w

Can’t be that bad if you didn’t even notice it until it was pointed out to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

No literally it rocked my world when my coworker told me. I held on to that belief that women can’t rlly do that kind of stuff and then for that to happen shook me to my core

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Go and ask hon. You deserve closure

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Omg ty for being kind 😭 I appreciate that

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

oh man i’m so sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

That’s insane I’m so so sorry this happened wow

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

Go fuck yourself

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Anonymous 7w

I’m just saying I’ve been stabbed before and I didn’t need to be explained why it was bad to be stabbed later. It was obvious.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

this isn’t about getting stabbed this about SA you dipfuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 7w

it’s alright it was a long time ago, thank you :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

I’m just saying if you need it explained to you that something was bad, it can’t have been that bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

This guy clearly jacks off to hate comments just ignore him y’all

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

if you’re being 100% serious please tell me cuz i will more than happily go into detail for you on how it’s not that simple

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

That’s kind of proving my point. Murder, battery, theft, tax evasion, child abuse, malingering etc. need no explanation for why they’re bad. It’s obvious to everyone. Yet these “assaults” need someone to um ackchyually to the “victims” before they even realize they’re “victims”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

it’s not obvious to everyone. you can be manipulated, gaslit, isolated from your entire support system, it can be your first relationship so you could think that it’s normal, you could downplay it cuz you don’t think it’s as bad as it actually is or cuz “other people have it worse”. and what about people who choose to see the better in others? i could go on and on about how you’re just objectively wrong and seemingly more and more like a piece of shit with every new comment i see from you

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

it’s so much more complex than you’re making it out to be. also, you’re contradicting yourself. i said “it’s not that simple”, and then you said “that’s kinda proving my point”. your wording sounds as if you’re agreeing with me all of a sudden but then you proceeded to continue explaining something just not aligned with your original argument at all

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Anonymous 7w

Yeah, for me, he nutted in me and didn’t tell me until months later. I went back to him because I just chalked it up as bad sex and then he gave me an STI.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

I firmly believe giving someone an std when u know you have one is sa too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

I agree morally, and legally it is too!

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

you can sue him for this

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