Yep I didn’t even know my ex raped me and I had to be told by friends that it was. I think a lot of people commit sa in many ways because no one especially men are taught the guidelines of consent

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It’s honestly sad

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My bsf made me realize it ): and I’m still unsure to that point where I want to ask someone from my college health center

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my high school ex pretended to be a trans guy cuz at the time i thought i was just gay, so she knew she’d have zero chance with me unless she pretended to be trans, and all of that was just to use me for sex

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My ex would sa me and I didn’t realize until I was talking to my supervisor at work about him and she said I should just say no to him and I had to stop myself from telling her I had already tried that

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Not me…

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