i was afraid of hookups until i thought more of them as exploring how to talk with people that i’m interested in, what to experiment with here and there in the sexual aspect, and how to flirt with people. i’m not saying getting wasted is helpful but a little liquid courage can cool off some of the nerves. BUT i will say that if you don’t feel 100% okay with the person, especially if you’re having a conversation beforehand, stop IMMEDIATELY. if it’s not a hell yeah, it’s a hell no.

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that's just having common sense and taking precautions. you do not know how how often the person gets tested or the last time, if they’re lying about it, or how safe it is to go to their house and vice versa so anything could wildly go wrong with how vulnerable ur left

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Just be celibate like me and then you have no fear of hookups. It’s worked for me so well

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