Sex is so hot and I’ve had it before but it’s never felt good (I’m a girl) I don’t know why! Fingering, eating, penetrating, nothing. Is something wrong with me??
Well it depends, do you have fun on your own? Are you attracted to your partners? It could be several things
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Anonymous19w
Are you on SSRIs or beta blockers?
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Anonymous19w
could definitely be anxiety linked or you might be on the ace spectrum! in any case, nothing wrong with you, ppl are just different. you could try mutual masturbation for foreplay
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Anonymous19w
i read somewhere that there’s such a thing as “too wet” and when you’re typically “too wet,” it feels like nothing. i’ve experienced that a lot like i don’t feel anything but i know it feels good because it doesn’t feel bad if that makes sense?
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Anonymous19w
Hmm maybe try like a lot of lube? Or experiment diff toys? Body parts are just weird like that and everyone is different, just do whatever feels good for u
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Anonymous#119w
I do have fun on my own! And I am attracted to my partners. My second ex for example, I could make out with that sexy man for hours, but I still was never wet/horny enough. I don’t know if something is wrong with me 😍
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Anonymous#219w
But i’m so so attracted to men. I think that (conventionally) and personality wise (only a few times because men suck) men are so attractive. I don’t know how I could fall on the ace spectrum though 🥲
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AnonymousOP19w
Idk, could be a foreplay thing? You might also just need lube to really get into it, some women are like that and that’s perfectly fine
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Anonymous#119w
I figured you probably would’ve said this but I’ll ask anyway, do you have any relevant medications you’re on or diagnoses that might affect it?