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I said “Hey…I don’t do sex on first dates.”, he said cool, He asked me to come back to his apartment, i reminded him I had no interest in having sex, he said cool, i walked in and first thing he did was ask if i could give him head atleast. Blocked.
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Anonymous 3w

Good choice 👍

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Anonymous 3w

yeah men aren’t lonely enough

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Anonymous 2w

Were you really interested in him or it was just a date

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

OP agreed to hang out that night with the very clearly communicated expectation of no sex which he agreed to. He could’ve had an amazing time hanging out and possibly a relationship if he didn’t ask for the one thing OP said they wouldn’t do. This is fully on him, if he’s lonely it’s his own fault.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I think you’re misreading the tone of that comment you’re replying to. I think they meant “men should be even more lonely” Not “men are already lonely enough”

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I was interested in him at the time when he asked me out, but that crashed and burned as you see.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

yeah, you’re exactly right. and i agree with what #3 is saying he’s lonely and it’s 100% his fault

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

What went wrong before he asked you to come back that made u lose interest

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