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I’ve been good friends with this guy for an 2 years and i’m interested in him but idk if he feels the same. His friend, who is a rly great guy, has recently been texting me telling me he wants to date me. pls help.
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Anonymous 11w

get them to kiss each other and you can be a happy throuple

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Anonymous 11w

You could tell the friend “I’m not interested I actually have a crush on John Doe(or whatever)” and then maybe the friend will tell John and if he’s interested he’ll make a move. It’s like confessing without having to actually confess (4D chess?)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

is it horrible that i am interested. I just have stronger feelings for my friend and i don’t want to mess it up before ik how he feels

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Oh I see. That’s not horrible, you aren’t involved with either. Unfortunately, I can say from experience you are probably better off choosing to take a chance on one and letting the other opportunity slide

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

this can be risky as the one u tell it to might not tell the other and can even sabotage any chance u have out of jealousy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Yeah that is very true you’d have to make a calculated risk based on what kind of guy you think they are

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

this is the move^

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