Hookup Horror Stories on Sidechat | How exactly do I get good at sex? After everything said and done, I end up overthinking and wondering if she enjoyed it, but I can’t outright just be like “Hey did you have a good time?” because that’s awkward and a mood killer. Any advice is welcome.

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How exactly do I get good at sex? After everything said and done, I end up overthinking and wondering if she enjoyed it, but I can’t outright just be like “Hey did you have a good time?” because that’s awkward and a mood killer. Any advice is welcome.

Anonymous 9w

If asking for feedback afterwards is a mood killer and awkward then that’s a you issue. How are you supposed to know what you’re good or bad at if you don’t ask the people you’re having sex with? Why would you rather ask strangers on an anonymous chatting app that have no idea you how you are in bed instead of the women you sleep with?

Anonymous 9w

It’s not a mood killer. It’s communication

Anonymous 9w

Don’t be a pussy and just fucking ask her bro. Tbh, I’ll even ask her in the moment “is this okay? Do you like this?” It’s not a mood killer. It just shows them you see them more than just a good fuck and THAT will definitely turn them on more. Sex is not porn. Girls like communication.

Anonymous 9w

Watch real porn, not production porn. Study up

Anonymous 9w

You can ask “how is this?” And “does this feel good?” Constructive criticism is not a bad thing

Anonymous 9w

Let me try with her and I can tell ya. I’m pretty good at it and maybe she’ll let you watch

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Anonymous 9w

Another way is if she squirts and or snowed on the dick an indication

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Anonymous

#1 9w

Your partners’ words should hold more weight and value to you than ours. Ask her over text if you don’t wanna do it in person, because “Hey did you have a good time?” is a perfectly reasonable question. It all depends on whether you’re willing to accept criticism

Anonymous

rudown4thatd 9w

Ewwwuh

Anonymous

#3 9w

honestly i feel it makes you more attractive as a partner if you do this. it shows you actually care about their pleasure and want to be attentive of it. plus, even though it might be a convo framed around improvement, i don't see what would be hot about talking about the things that would make sex more fun and stimulating 😋

Anonymous

#1 9w

I don’t think it’s a mood killer, they think it’s a mood killer.

Anonymous

#4 9w

wtf i meant to say "i don't see what wouldn't be hot about it" LMFAO

Anonymous

OP 9w

Then communicate how important feedback is to you because you wanna get better. If y’all are comfortable having sex but not enough to actually talk about the sex itself, then that is a problem

Anonymous

#5 9w

What’s the difference??

Anonymous

#3 9w

Production porn is the plot shit, there is real porn of just two people in a relationship having passionate, normal sex.

Anonymous

#5 9w

this approach doesn't necessarily teach someone how to perform certain acts, nor does it show you what exactly YOUR partner might like or want out of sex.

Anonymous

#4 9w

This gave me a lot of confidence to go talk to her and we had a good talk. We both feel more confident around each other and with each other’s bodies. Thank you for the help.

Anonymous

#5 9w

This wouldn’t have helped me much on my own but I spoke with her and we watched it together. Not only did we talk about it together, it was an amazing way to communicate what we would like to each other. Thank you

Anonymous

#6 9w

She’d love to watch two dudes go at it, or is that not in your ball park? I promise I’ll be gentle

Anonymous

#1 9w

I was incorrect about this and it was my thoughts. Thank you for your advice, we both feel more confident and open with each other and know more about each other.

Anonymous

OP 9w

That’s amazing!! I love to hear that!

Anonymous

OP 9w

Wait are you telling me, you and your gf watched porn together because I suggested it?

Anonymous

#3 9w

Just go on twitter lol

Anonymous

#5 9w

We were talking about it and then she brought it up to me, I remember what you said and so I agreed and it was very helpful. She learned new things about me, I learned new things about her, and we both had a great time. So yeah, thank you

Anonymous

#7 9w

I am realizing that most of my problems are imaginary and I do just need to stop overthinking and grow some balls. I have also improved my communication with her, thank you.

Anonymous

OP 9w

No fucking way that’s awesome

Anonymous

#5 9w

Yooo ur a guru man!!!! Now sell an online course for 6000 dollars to vulnerable teens.

Anonymous

#8 9w

Sounds like a good fucking plan ngl I’ll include videos of myself

Anonymous

OP 9w

Best response ever

Anonymous

#3 9w

Production porn is usually really rough and doesn’t accurately reflect a woman’s pleasure. It’s always male centered