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Hooked up with a guy, during sex he stuck the ENTIRETY of his tongue IN MY EAR Absolutely no warning, 3 diff times He also asked if he needed a condom for anal, I said yes, and he proceeded WITHOUT ONE ANYWAY Like wtf..I faked an emergency to leave, -3/10
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Anonymous 2w

That counts as assault

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Anonymous 2w

Why r u doing anal with someone u just met

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Does it really?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

If someone proceeds with sex in a way that you don’t agree to… yeah that’s assault

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yes, you asked for your partner to wear a condom and they refused. That could lead to unwanted pregnancy and other complications. But you consented with use of a condom, you didn’t consent without use of a condom

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Well shit…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

It was anal so it wouldn’t lead to pregnancy but i definitely didn’t consent to that..I guess i didn’t realize that would count as assault

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah, I forgot the anal part but it is assault, and it’s also super disgusting. I’m so sorry love.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’m definitely never seeing him again, I don’t even know if imma do another hookup after that shit show

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

its also a crime because he wouldnt have gotten you pregnant but couldve given you an sti/std.,,, proceeding w/o a condom after your partner specifically asked you to (or even if you know you have an sti/std) is a whole nother crime itself

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Do you know how soon after exposure you can get an std test..? He said he was clean but obviously he doesn’t seem to care much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

most will show up quickly on tests but others can take a while,,, i would go in a week and then again in a month,,, if everything comes up clean after that you should be good to go but it never hurts to get tested regularly especially if youre hooking up :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I think everything would show up after 2 weeks, 3 for sure. I’m so sorry this happened to you, what a disgusting scum bag. Are you doing ok?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I’m doing the best I can- the people DMing me are definitely not helping🫩 saying they could “fill my ass better” 😔🔫

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Oh my god that’s terrible! I can’t believe people would be so hateful 😭 I’m unbelievably sorry op, can you turn your dms off?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

One of the people who have commented off of this post, i don’t think they like when I just apply the same energy back…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yah you ate

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

So first of all a hookup doesn’t have to be someone you just met, it’s just someone you’re not formally dating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

😢

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Pregnancy is still possible, just significantly lower Bigger concern is risk of spreading a STI Much higher risk due to the delicacy of the tissue and lack of natural lubrication I love anal, but ya gotta know how to be safe and make it enjoyable

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Right answer here Recommend another follow up at 3 months for any delayed infection development Planned parenthood has some good resource web pages

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

I didn’t just meet them, no where in that post did I say we just met, we hooked up, didn’t knew he was gonna be like *that*

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