Hooked up with a guy, during sex he stuck the ENTIRETY of his tongue IN MY EAR
Absolutely no warning, 3 diff times
He also asked if he needed a condom for anal, I said yes, and he proceeded WITHOUT ONE ANYWAY
Like wtf..I faked an emergency to leave, -3/10
If someone proceeds with sex in a way that you don’t agree to… yeah that’s assault
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AnonymousOP2w
Yes, you asked for your partner to wear a condom and they refused. That could lead to unwanted pregnancy and other complications. But you consented with use of a condom, you didn’t consent without use of a condom
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Anonymous#22w
Well shit…
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Anonymous#12w
It was anal so it wouldn’t lead to pregnancy but i definitely didn’t consent to that..I guess i didn’t realize that would count as assault
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AnonymousOP2w
Yeah, I forgot the anal part but it is assault, and it’s also super disgusting. I’m so sorry love.
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Anonymous#12w
I’m definitely never seeing him again, I don’t even know if imma do another hookup after that shit show
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AnonymousOP2w
its also a crime because he wouldnt have gotten you pregnant but couldve given you an sti/std.,,, proceeding w/o a condom after your partner specifically asked you to (or even if you know you have an sti/std) is a whole nother crime itself
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Anonymous#32w
Do you know how soon after exposure you can get an std test..? He said he was clean but obviously he doesn’t seem to care much
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AnonymousOP2w
most will show up quickly on tests but others can take a while,,, i would go in a week and then again in a month,,, if everything comes up clean after that you should be good to go but it never hurts to get tested regularly especially if youre hooking up :)
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AnonymousOP2w
I think everything would show up after 2 weeks, 3 for sure. I’m so sorry this happened to you, what a disgusting scum bag. Are you doing ok?
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Anonymous#42w
I’m doing the best I can- the people DMing me are definitely not helping saying they could “fill my ass better”
😔🔫
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AnonymousOP2w
Oh my god that’s terrible! I can’t believe people would be so hateful 😭 I’m unbelievably sorry op, can you turn your dms off?
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AnonymousOP2w
One of the people who have commented off of this post, i don’t think they like when I just apply the same energy back…
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AnonymousOP2w
Yah you ate
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Anonymous#52w
So first of all a hookup doesn’t have to be someone you just met, it’s just someone you’re not formally dating
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AnonymousOP2w
😢
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AnonymousOP2w
Pregnancy is still possible, just significantly lower
Bigger concern is risk of spreading a STI
Much higher risk due to the delicacy of the tissue and lack of natural lubrication
I love anal, but ya gotta know how to be safe and make it enjoyable
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Anonymous#32w
Right answer here
Recommend another follow up at 3 months for any delayed infection development
Planned parenthood has some good resource web pages
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Anonymous#52w
I didn’t just meet them, no where in that post did I say we just met, we hooked up, didn’t knew he was gonna be like *that*