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My bf and I are 18 and 19 and in college. We both go to church and love god and traditional roles in relationships a lot of my girl friends are pressuring me to lose my v card to him but I prefer his company than sex, is this weird? I feel so unc
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Anonymous 1w

I think if you want to wait until marriage, that’s great, you do you. I do think you should have a desire to jump his bones. If it’s too easy to be celibate, it might be a sign that you’re not actually attracted to him

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Anonymous 1w

girl your friends are pressuring you? that’s something i’d expect from his friends or people you don’t really know. kind of a red flag for the friendship if they aren’t respecting a boundary that doesn’t even involve them

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Anonymous 1w

Since you feel this way, you’ll be happy you waited. My friend who got married waited until then and they made the right decision for themselves

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Anonymous 1w

honestly crazy that YOUR friends are pressuring you or even bringing it up. shouldn’t be any of their business.

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Anonymous 1w

Stick to ur guns, they want to man

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I am attracted to him, I’ve questioned all my life if I’m asexual I am so disinterested in sex and don’t really have as much desire

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

If you don’t have any desire you are not with the right man

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you might just be asexual and there’s nothing wrong with that :) remember you don’t have to have sex ever, not just until marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Thank you, idk it just feels really weird like I’ve had 2 of my closest girl friends make me feel uncomfortable and they know I am a virgin and believe in god, to shut them down I just tell them I’m waiting but it feels so weird.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Thank you this feels good to hear, my mom had even bern bringing it up

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Thank you, and my boyfriend isn’t really instructed in sex either I feel like that’s normal for a godly relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

honestly it resonates, I’ve been put in a similar position since me and my bf are also both religious and waiting, but at least it wasn’t people close to us. hopefully things get less awkward for you!

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