Hookup Horror Stories on Sidechat | guys.. should i start my whore era? i just broke up with this guy bc hes evil, we didnt sleep together and ive only ever had sex once a year ago. it was horrible like i need to know sex isnt horrible or i feel like i wont ever wanna do it if i dont now.

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guys.. should i start my whore era? i just broke up with this guy bc hes evil, we didnt sleep together and ive only ever had sex once a year ago. it was horrible like i need to know sex isnt horrible or i feel like i wont ever wanna do it if i dont now.

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Anonymous 1w

man f #1 bros a hater im in the same boat as u except i was with my ex for a long ahh time and have been single for longer than i wanna admit. lowk might start whore era too i need that sweet lore lmao. but seriously!! sex can be great!! so lovely and amazing!!! dont let bad times ruin all the wonderful ones! keep on trying til u hit the jackpot dawg 😼

Anonymous 1w

honestly go out and gain more experience, doesn’t mean you have to have no standards or anything but go out and do what would be good for you🫶

Anonymous 1w

Honestly do it diva get that mom lore or dad lore, you don’t need to be a whore if you just wanna sleep around maybe just find a fwb or something but frr fuck it why not enter your whore era for the mom or dad lore🙏

Anonymous 1w

had my hoe era after a 3 year relationship w someone who never made me finish—- spent 3 months making the craziest lore & found out so much abt myself & actually healed a lot w letting myself feel & really just enjoy safe, no strings intimacy while im young and free and single

Anonymous 1w

I’ve never had a female friend who didn’t cry at some point about her hoe phase

Anonymous 1w

You can do whatever you want but I’ve found almost no satisfaction or happiness from any of my hookups, I just feel discarded afterwards. It feels so much better when you love the person who you do it with

Anonymous 1w

Lmao why does it HAVE to be whore era? It’s just gaining some experience nothing wrong with that at all

Anonymous 1w

Sex is fun, but it's not for everyone. I would say to give it another go though. Nothing wrong with a ho era imo (I know some people don't agree, that's fine) but I also wouldn't say you "should" do it. If you do it, cool. If not, cool.

Anonymous 1w

you don’t need to be a whore and sleep around as much as possible just find someone you at least like somewhat and trust and do the deed

Anonymous 1w

run it girl having a hoe phase is a part of the healing process honestly just be smart and careful ab it don’t let any lame hit fr but just have fun and get to explore. 🫶

Anonymous 1d

You’ll want to do it when the time is right.

Anonymous 1w

if you can be unattached and game then you BETTER work

Anonymous 1w

I feel like fwb would be a better option than one night stands as long as no one catches feelings 🤷🏽‍♀️

Anonymous 1w

I think you should start your "You"-era. Don't let these street toughs sway you from who you really are. Don't let me hear you talk about my friend, OP, that way again. Keep your chin up, kid — because you're good enough, you're smart enough, and doggone it, people like you. Stay classy, kid.

Anonymous

#1 1w

it doesn’t have to be this huge all or nothing era 😭

Anonymous

#1 1w

its just a saying bruh 😭

Anonymous

#1 1w

it wouldnt be as much as possible im dead as hell i just mean like dgaf bc idk man i was friends with my ex for 7 months before we started dating and i trusted him and he was evill bro i cant trust these men 😅 also ofc id somewhat like the person i sleep with and find them attractive its not like im gonna hit up some rando on the street bro 😭

Anonymous

OP 1w

uhh sounds like you have shit taste in men thus far

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Anonymous

#1 1w

bro how is this my fault im dead he seemed good at first i dont just date anyone.. mb for getting lied to and played by an evil man who knew how to lie n manipulate 🙏

Anonymous

#3 1w

AYYY TY bro frl i was like damn.. okay rude as hell 😭?? N Sorry to hear ur in the same situation 💔And IK I SHOULDNT LET THE BAD TIMES EFFECT ME ITS JUST SO EVILL i feel like im loosing it or smth.. thats why i gotta maybe not full whore era, but at least dabble or smth ⁉️but hey if u end up going for it with tha era best of luck man, srsly 🫂

Anonymous

#5 1w

Yeah i def wouldnt have no standards n i think people r getting confused on that 😭 Like im not gonna be forreal walking the streets guys holyshit, I just wanna live a little

Anonymous

#4 1w

Hellz yes wnd yea thats what i was thinking more a fwb or something type deal. Ill still have standards n be safe, I just dont wanna be in a relationship for a good long while, but also i gotta fix my “sex is horrible gawdayum” mindset before its too late i fear..

Anonymous

#6 1w

yerr ive heard mixed reviews.. like majority of people that like it still kinda show that a little part of them doesnt like it. I dont want this to be forever honestly just a few times with a few people or one person i think is attractive and tolerable, to get over this like, innate disgust im slowly building towards the idea of sex as a whole

Anonymous

OP 1w

Whatever floats your boat

Anonymous

#9 1w

guys its just a saying its not forreal a whore era im dead as hell yall r taking me saying that wayy too seriously 😭 but ya basically what i was getting at is gaining a little experience

Anonymous

#8 1w

same thats why im kinda like errr but i feel like shit anyways rn so might as well.. ? plus i feel like itll be helpful, idk if u read the other comments i responded to but it explains my psyche on this better

Anonymous

OP 1w

Sorry I’m a guy and dumb💀

Anonymous

OP 1w

I understand. In a similar situation, but it’s harder for guys to hoe phase if you’re downright average like me so not quiet the same risks. The only thing I’ll say is, probably better to prioritize healing than coping. Most hoe phasing is just coping, it doesn’t actually address the problem.

Anonymous

OP 1w

I promise sex isn’t horrible you just gotta find the right person, personally I’ve had bad sex before and I think it just happens to everyone at some point or another but frr go get some fwb type shit girl!! Or guy!!

Anonymous

#1 5d

Sybau

Anonymous 5d

Bro chill jeez touch grass