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Hookup Horror Stories 15h
I’m falling in love with my hookup because he’s such a gentleman and he fucks so good but he said he isn’t looking for anything serious (which i respect) SO WHY DO WE TEXT AND FLIRT ALL DAY 😞
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Anonymous 13h

He enjoys being single. Him being nice and flirty is just fun for him and he’s not a total asshole. I’m the same way he is and you mentioning wanting a relationship might fuck up the dynamic you have rn

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Anonymous 13h

you deserve what you tolerate. if you arent getting what you want... nobody is keeping you there but yourself.

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Anonymous 8h

You know what you gotta do girl. Either confess and end it now or set some hard boundaries about texting all day

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Anonymous 15h

Id just let it go on like that for a length of time and then tell him how you feel, maybe by that point he’ll feel the same

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Anonymous 15h

I might know who this is ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

nuh uh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Yuh huh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

omg that sounds like a good idea, i just hope he dosent reject me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

guess

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Are you in eastern us time zone?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

yes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

that proves nothing 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Cause in my experience hookups don’t text and flirt all day, so he probably likes you on some level

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Are you in college

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

oh i’m too delusional for this 😞😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

I in fact dont know who this is

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

i literally said i respect his wishes i just didn’t expect to like him that much

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

i know, i might just let him be bc i will catch feelings if we continue this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

He’ll never take you seriously because you already gave him what he wanted.. why make it serious? Sounds mean but it’s the truth

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Anonymous 10h

“You women” shut up bro 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> mr_wick 10h

mr wick grow up

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 10h

For Stating a Fact?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

yeah protect your peace, if hes not open to something more best drop him now before it gets harder to

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Anonymous replying to -> mr_wick 9h

Not every guy wants exclusively sex out of a relationship, that’s a very narrow mindset

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8h

Of course, but didn’t op literally say that this guy has been clear about only being there for a good time. mr_wick’s wording was harsh, but I agree that op will only end up hurt by leaning into the delulu mindset here. She should protect her peace and move on

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

thats right, if someone texts back more than 90% of your close friends I’m 90% sure you are already more than friends just without a label.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7h

Thank you that’s all I’m trying to say, most hookup buddies I know couldn’t care less whether you lived or died if it’s outside of booty call hours

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

Nah fr & it is what it is; but it is, not for me lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

I get ur situation and that’s exactly what I did.

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