
If you want someone to change something tell them especially if you’re going to pursue a relationship with them. If it’s just a hookup or a fling then whatever but I think the longer you go through with it without saying anything the more likely it is to hurt their feelings because it’ll seem like you’re hiding the fact that you don’t like it. If someone asked me to change something like that because they’d prefer it a different way I would be open to it because it’s supposed to be for both