You might have vaginismus or he might’ve just done a really bad job prepping. Worth trying to stretch by yourself and seeing if you can do it without so much pain

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Unfortunately losing your virginity painlessly can take a long time, even if you do prep correctly. It took like a month of my boyfriend stretching me out daily with his fingers before he could use his dick without pain.

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it hurt SO bad when i lost my virginity, ur not alone bae

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Not tried u did

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unfortunately the first time often hurts, but the more you relax your body and the better he gets it will be wayyy better. sex shouldn’t be painful and if it is try more foreplay on you

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Get lube. Made it 1000% better for me and my bf in our first couple weeks of taking each other’s v cards

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