Hookup Horror Stories on Sidechat | Can someone explain what aftercare is? Like it sounds like some of y'all are wanting a therapy session after the fuck and like, I feel like there's no way that's right cause that'd legit be wild but also I don't know what else y'all could mean.

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Can someone explain what aftercare is? Like it sounds like some of y'all are wanting a therapy session after the fuck and like, I feel like there's no way that's right cause that'd legit be wild but also I don't know what else y'all could mean.

Anonymous 5w

To me, aftercare is just laying up with each other after, maybe spending a lil time together. At least for me, in relationships, I’d grab snacks and drinks (after cleaning up) and we’d watch a show or maybe even nap. I can’t explain for aftercare after a hookup though idk

Anonymous 5w

For hookups, we usually cuddle after or watch tv or shower together

Anonymous 5w

I cuddle with him for like five mins afterwards and then we get dress and he leaves

Anonymous

#1 5w

That’s generally the gist of it, I love doing all of those things

Anonymous

#1 5w

I can get that is it's a relationship I guess, though that kinda just seems like normal things to do if you're a couple tbh. Not sure why it even needs an extra name. But for a hookup like, I don't even know this guy. Why do I wanna cuddle? I just wanted since dick and now you can leave please.

Anonymous

OP 5w

I totally see your perspective and I get it. It makes me wonder that without “aftercare”, sex becomes a very surface level activity which sucks about hook ups cuz sex should be taken seriously.

Anonymous

#2 5w

Then like at that point is hook ups become purely meant for selfish desire and not the momentarily connection?

Anonymous

#2 5w

I feel like sex should be taken seriously as far as like consent and boundaries and things, but I don't think it needs to be wholly sacred. It can just be casual fun if that's what people want imo. Like if I'm at a hookup, in not looking to fully roleplay that we're in a relationship. I'm not trying to make love at a hookup, I'm kinda just looking to fuck. Like I need enough of a good vibe to feel like I'm not going to be harmed but otherwise, I'm not super concerned about it.

Anonymous

#2 5w

I am very social and talkative so if the vibe is rly good we might could have a yap sesh before or after, but like, that's completely superfluous and feels like a wholly separate interaction honestly