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Hookup Horror Stories 7w
This guy is more than double my age, cute, friendly, sweet, bought me a Lego set and promised me future dates, (when we’re both not busy for once) should I hookup with him or not?
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Anonymous 7w

Nah bro, age difference too steep, there’s other guys that will treat you nice minus the age gap— stay strong brother

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Anonymous 7w

Shi why not ? But also be very clear difference between dating and hooking up

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Anonymous 7w

I can’t tell you what to do but I found that hookups did more harm than good for me and I’m not sure hooking up with someone old enough to be your dad is a good idea. It’s a bit concerning, just be careful

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Anonymous 7w

As long as you’re both consenting and setting boundaries this works as a good fwb

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Anonymous 7w

Maybe try having a relationship with him if you like him :)

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Anonymous 7w

Yes! You should!

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Anonymous 7w

more than twice your age and buying you toys sounds hella sus

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Anonymous 7w

I mean depends how old you are. If you’re like 19 and the dudes 50 then I’d say no

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

Legos aren’t like kids toys 😭 it’s often a collectible. I have a lot of friends who seriously collect sets but I just wanted one because I like Marvel

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

I was thinking about it but I’m not sure if it would be socially acceptable. I just don’t want to get weird looks for it 😓

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

But think about it. If you are happy then it’s your choice. My aunt has a husband thirty years older than her. She is happy and doesn’t care what others think. It’s how you want to live :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

I’m 18 and he’s 38

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Personally I’ve just always found it weird when older people want to hookup with people way younger than them, I just always wonder why’s it difficult for you to hookup with someone around your age, like what issues do you have that I’m not noticing? Idk maybe I’m paranoid but yeah 18 and 38 personally I recommend it’s a no go but yk its up to u

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Oh damn I thought you were at least 21 yea 18 and 28 is a no got tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Dude they said 38 it’s even worse than that lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Yea no I’m ngl it’s a tiny bit crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

No you’re right I don’t think I’m going through with it after giving it some thought

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