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Is it normal for girls to not finish? I was in a long term relationship and never finished once but he always did and just assumed I did too, but I feel like I’m missing out
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Anonymous 10w

He’s not trying to help you at all? Hate to break it sweetie but you NEEDED to tell him that you never did

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Anonymous 10w

It’s more common for women not to finish because of the stimulation we need but it’s not difficult at all. It’s fucking great when your partner can make you finish and you’ll know it when you feel it, it won’t be a question anymore. I’ve been where you are, I hope you can get comfortable with your sexuality, learn what feels good, and get a good partner who can help or at least communicate to

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Anonymous 10w

That’s horrible. You must be really pent up.

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Anonymous 10w

It’s both of your faults. His for not being attentive and yours for not being honest. Learn your body and communicate what you like

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Anonymous 10w

there’s so many ways to finish!! you can finish without even touching down there :) sometimes toys can help and some people just aren’t able to finish and that’s okay! tips from others can only help so much since everyone is different. try lots of different things including the mood, and other things you do for yourself during it! some people are into temperature play, bondage, etc

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Anonymous 10w

girl this is not normal this crazy my ex made me cum everytime

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Anonymous 10w

it’s normal but not great lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Trust me I am😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

We’ve already broke up do gladly I don’t have to be the one to break it to him that he can’t make a girl finish 😭 buttt basically you’re saying it was a him issue right?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Definitely a him issue, did you guys not have much foreplay at all? Even if he finishes, he should be helping you finish, whether that’s foreplay until he gets hard again or just doing what you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

No we didn’t, and it always kinda frustrated me but he always rushed into sex but I didn’t fault him because we were each others firsts. But I never felt comfortable telling him because I knew his ego would be bruised, and thank you I’ll know what to look for in the future!!

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