Hookup Horror Stories on Sidechat | I hooked up with this college athlete yesterday that I had been talking to and snapping for about 2 weeks . It was nice I tried a blunt tor the first time, I didn’t inhale so I felt nothing really. We started making out and it was good, he fingered me so

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I hooked up with this college athlete yesterday that I had been talking to and snapping for about 2 weeks . It was nice I tried a blunt tor the first time, I didn’t inhale so I felt nothing really. We started making out and it was good, he fingered me so

Anonymous 19h

There’s a word for what happened to you: stealthing. It’s a form of sexual assault/rape, where a partner secretly or quietly removes a condom that was a part of the basis of consent to the sex. I’m sorry this happened to you. Definitely schedule testing for STI/STDs, and talk to your doctor about the incident. You didn’t deserve to go through that, what he did to remove the condom was wrong.

Anonymous 21h

good it was amazing, in 5”3 he’s 6”5 so it basically felt like a dick. We thank decided to have sex and I was only okay with it if u had a condom, he did he stretched it out first and has a hard time putting it oh bc he kept getting soft and it was also too big . I watched him put it in than he wanted to do backshots which I was fine with. His dick was too big so it hurt and I told him to go slower which he did but it and it was good but when he tried going deeper it hurt and I had to putt away

Anonymous

OP 21h

Anyways when we were done he started making out with me but it felt like he was looking for something, after a while I pulled back and I didn’t see the condom and his dick had a spot of blood on it , I asked him where the condom went and he said he took it off when he was done which I don’t believe. Than we noticed I bleed on the sheets because it was too big (it never went all the way in) idk how to feel but I feel like my boundaries were not respected and I don’t know what to do. The condom

Anonymous

OP 21h

Was on the floor when I went down of the bed, we made out again while he jerked off bc he didn’t cum, than he came on my butt and than wiped me off . I don’t think he used the condom I did feel it a few times than it felt harder but idk for sure .

Anonymous

OP 21h

He’s a football player and I wouldn’t have liked to keep taking but after this I just don’t feel fully comfortable anymore but idk what to do. I now have vaginal bleeding still and it hurts to stand up and pee. What do I do?

Anonymous

OP 20h

If the bleeding and the pain doesn’t get better in a day, go to a doctor. Also you should get tested for STIs if he didn’t use a condom, though some might not show up on an STI test for a while so make sure to tell the doctor when it was that you had sex and follow their instructions for how long from now you should get tested.

Anonymous

#1 14h

I made an appointment, it’s tomorrow I guess we’ll see, thank you , you guys are so sweet

Anonymous

#2 14h

Thanks so much, honestly I think I just needed to hear someone else say it out loud because I feel ashamed and guilty for it. I should have checked more and I’m such a people pleaser. I made my sti/std appointment, it’s for tomorrow

Anonymous

OP 13h

You have nothing to be ashamed of. People make mistakes sometimes, but also it shouldn’t be on you to be making sure that he’s doing the right thing. Yes unfortunately it’s far too common to have people do stuff like this which means it’s a good idea to check and make sure, but making sure to wear a condom is HIS responsibility.