Anonymous #1 3d

there’s many bad ways babe

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Anonymous #2 3d

he believed that shit too

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Anonymous #3 3d

i knew he’d be insufferable about it

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Anonymous OP 3d

You could have guided him through it?

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Anonymous #3 3d

so why would i do all that just for him to probably still be mediocre anyway

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Anonymous OP 3d

Would have been better then what he actually did

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Anonymous #3 3d

if his next partner intends to see him more than once it can be their problem but i’m not doing all that for a hookup

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Anonymous OP 3d

That’s fair lol

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Anonymous OP 3d

😭😭 I’m sorry

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Anonymous #5 2d

Exactly

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Anonymous #5 2d

there’s not gonna be a next time babe

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Anonymous OP 2d

next time you’re with a man in GENERAL babe

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Anonymous #5 2d

again there’s not gonna be a next time

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Anonymous OP 2d

oh so he’s turned you into a nun?!

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Anonymous #5 2d

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesbian

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Anonymous OP 2d

not all vaginas are the same?! just because you hook up with people with the same organ doesn’t mean they’re going to be better at it… PLS grow up & learn how to communicate bc people like you are genuinely insufferable

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Anonymous OP 2d

If you knew he would be insufferable about sex. Why have sex with him😭😭

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Maybe because you don't communicate and fake orgasms with men? Seriously now this dude is gonna go on thinking what he did is some power move. You've given the next partner of his a bad time. Literally just communicate like an adult and it would've been fine.

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Anonymous #6 2d

well i couldn’t just get up and walk my happy ass home if he was the one who drove me

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Anonymous #6 2d

then that’s their problem idk i just wanted him to stop it

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Anonymous #5 2d

Literally? Like now this guy is gonna do that to the next girl. It's SO immature and silly. Why have sex with someone if you can't even tell them what you like? Everyone is different. OP is so weird for this

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Anonymous #8 2d

then that can be her problem but honestly i don’t think he’s getting many hookups

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Anonymous OP 2d

Then tell him to stop 😭 Correct it in the moment so it doesn’t happen again, or continue to happen if you don’t like it.

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Anonymous #10 2d

well it won’t happen again i’m never fucking him again

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Anonymous OP 2d

Such as?

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Lmao that backfired on you crazy

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dude that’s such a crazy thing to say i dunno why everyone is upvoting you. people having multiple partners in the past doesn’t make them easy and maybe OP should have told him but she didn’t owe him anything it sounds like he was just a hookup… plus that can be dangerous with certain men.

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also i feel like maybe don’t be on a sex page/stories about sex page if you’re promoting purity culture

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Anonymous #9 2d

LITERALLY i don’t get why people are mad asf at OP for not telling him. She doesn’t owe him anything and it’s not her problem if he’s bad the next time he hooks up with someone. Like yeah sorry to the next girl but it’s not OP’s job to coach him

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Anonymous #15 2d

What are saying dangerous with certain men. We are adults that we don’t owe you anything is an excuse to speak up.

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Anonymous #22 2d

just doing it wrong tbh

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Anonymous OP 2d

lord have mercy 🙄

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i didn’t expect this many upvotes damn??? im posting shit to post shit

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Anonymous #14 2d

is that my fucking job

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why

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ew what a weird thing to say

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Anonymous OP 2d

You could’ve said that then lmao?

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Anonymous #21 2d

it is dangerous with certain men? i’ve had men get very anger and violent for speaking up about stuff like that before and it’s scary. It’s also emotionally draining many times to try to explain and teach someone how to do things and you’re not always going to feel like doing that and that’s okay. She doesn’t owe him a lesson on sex just because she agreed to hookup with him.

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Anonymous #19 2d

Very good point, I agree

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Anonymous #16 2d

🫶🏾

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Anonymous #1 2d

It’s different for different people but being too rough, too fast, too much pressure, too dry, too soon, too concentrated. Using nails, pinching. Some people like these things but some people don’t or might not depending on where their mind/body is at the moment. Just start slow and gentle and don’t be overly focused on the clit. I like to ask “anything you want me to do differently?”

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Anonymous #15 2d

People on here choose the wildest hills to die on

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Anonymous OP 2d

I feel like he’d be even more insufferable if he thought he made you cum in 10 seconds

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Anonymous #30 2d

that’s not my problem anymore because i’m never talking to him again

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Anonymous #1 2d

Why are y’all downvoting them?? People can ask questions. Wouldn’t you rather them ask and get better?

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Anonymous #29 2d

Idk why there so many downvotes on this if yall want to be fingered good, let the boys know

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Anonymous #29 2d

that’s not my job

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Anonymous OP 2d

It’s not but like the night can go better

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Anonymous #29 2d

it is so tiring to teach people this stuff because a lot of them don’t listen and it just makes it more frustrating. beyond that he’s just a hookup she doesn’t owe him a lesson on this stuff

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Anonymous #29 2d

im never speaking to this man again so i couldn’t care less

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Anonymous #35 2d

hm i sure do wonder why i wouldn’t want to tell a man im not into it anymore

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Anonymous #35 2d

why are you blaming other people for men’s egos? that’s just the way they are and if they can’t catch a hint they can’t catch a hint.

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Anonymous OP 2d

right, a guy is gonna murder you because you told him he’s not sexually pleasing you correctly. and i’m saying this as a woman.

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Anonymous #35 2d

how do you know i didn’t have a bad feeling from this guy though? you weren’t there

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Anonymous #15 2d

maybe because women like OP are inflating their egos by faking an O?? can you read?? they think they’re doing it right when women like her act like that.

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Anonymous #35 2d

ewww look dude, if a guy tells you you’re really sexy and you carry that with you forever and make that your personality and it inflates your ego i think you have bigger problems and that’s what you’re saying rn. He can figure his stuff out but it’s not her job to work it out for him. It takes almost everyone time to figure out how to do sexual stuff and what he was doing could perfectly well feel good to another woman or not because people are different and it was just a one time hookup for her

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Anonymous OP 2d

Not crazy

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Anonymous #36 2d

well no actually men are stupid

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Anonymous OP 2d

Interesting. So they just believe it when u said u orgasmed?

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Anonymous #36 2d

yeah

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Anonymous OP 2d

Crazy

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Anonymous #36 2d

it’s not that unbelievable lmao

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Anonymous #36 2d

I wish I could fake it. I just don’t know how to

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Anonymous #36 2d

Well men I have been around are not that stupid. They will know for SURE. So I can’t even fake anything

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Anonymous #36 2d

for sure?? i doubt that

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Anonymous #37 2d

i am too this guy kinda solidified that fact for me

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Anonymous OP 2d

Are all lesbians of our generation just girls who had too many bad fingering encounters?

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Anonymous #29 2d

well no im not a lesbian because of bad sex with men

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Anonymous #37 2d

twin ❤️

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Anonymous OP 2d

Sounds like you just said the push over the edge was a guy that couldn’t finger you?

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Anonymous #37 2d

yeah but that was one specific instance, not the whole reason

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Anonymous #29 2d

the push over the edge was this guy making me realize im not attracted to men

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Anonymous #6 2d

I don’t think it’s her responsibility to make sure the next girl has a good experience. When she’s the one involved she can do whatever she feels comfortable with. If faking an orgasm to make it stop felt like the safest option then what’s the fucking problem? Stop catering to men and treating them like little babies who need to be coddled. Let women do what they feel comfortable with in bed you freak

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Anonymous #3 2d

Not all men are open to criticism like that in these moments.

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Anonymous #29 2d

She said it was a one time hookup. If they were consistently hooking up that’s different. Clearly there was an issue with him outside of the hookup. If a girl was actually comfortable around a man and liked him they would obviously tell them what they’re doing wrong. Idk why all of these men are projecting onto her in the comments. Don’t demand sex and let a girl actually be comfortable with communicating to you and you won’t be “humiliated” and actually “taught” like you want to.

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Anonymous #5 2d

Tbf based on her replies this seems like a fake story

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Anonymous #45 2d

None of her replies have made this seem fake and it’s an incredibly common story that I hear from a LOT of women tbh.

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Anonymous OP 2d

Ur so goated for this answer but also i bet it inflated his ego omgg

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Anonymous #5 2d

Did he pick you yet? Men are so uneducated for people who want to be with women. If we all learned how to give head they can do the same. Idk why u think we should take the burden of teaching them some shit they should be learning themselves.

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Anonymous #6 2d

You’re a pick me she didn’t have to do shit that’s not her problem to deal with

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Anonymous #35 2d

It’s not her job to teach or to stroke his ego. Communication if a two way street you turd

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Anonymous #39 2d

Ugh I hate ssri people just don’t be in intimate relationships it really sucks the fun out of everything

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Anonymous #44 2d

Yea stand up girl…

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Not her job u incompetent mf

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Anonymous #45 2d

Smd

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Anonymous #48 2d

it’s literally your own fault for never correcting him tf? you brought that on yourself

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Anonymous #3 2d

And why is it her job...???

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Anonymous #48 2d

What did you like about him?

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Anonymous #47 2d

Instantly throwing the pick me card for not defending goofy shit is insane 😭

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Anonymous #47 2d

Part of being an adult is communication. Not saying anything and dipping is the definition of a pick me bs thought

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Anonymous #21 2d

none of you know what a pick me is lol

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Anonymous #50 2d

i didn’t owe him that

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Anonymous #45 2d

how??

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Anonymous #45 2d

if someone told you this in real life would you say ts 💀

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Anonymous #52 2d

it’s not my job to teach him. he’s got internet access

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Anonymous #53 2d

i mean yeah there’s that at the very least

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Anonymous OP 2d

Communication is key. You could have said something

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Anonymous #53 2d

he was a HOOKUP it’s not my job to teach him how to make a woman feel good

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Anonymous OP 2d

I forgot this was hookup horror stories and not sex talk mb

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Anonymous #55 2d

well yeah but he was a hookup i didn’t like, didn’t intend to see again, and blocked as soon as he dropped me off back home

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Anonymous OP 2d

Not coming from a place of hate, but why are we hooking up with ppl we know we don’t like ? 😅

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Anonymous #55 2d

i didn’t know i didn’t like him babe

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Anonymous #49 2d

because she is deliberately giving him cues that he’s doing a good job when she clearly feels otherwise

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Anonymous #35 2d

and why’s that my problem his next hookup can tell him he sucks for all i care

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Anonymous OP 2d

OP we don’t care anymore Keep it moving

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Anonymous #21 2d

If you didn't care you wouldn't have replied lol

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Anonymous #1 2d

if it’s too overstimulating it’s not fun it’s just uncomfortable

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Anonymous #59 2d

men like that have high egos no matter what i do

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Anonymous #5 2d

we're not stupid like you...no shit you aren't?

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Anonymous #48 2d

3 years you dumb bitch 💀

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Anonymous OP 2d

He won in life losing you

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Anonymous #60 2d

no i think i won. i was his first and he actually made it abundantly clear why no one wanted to fuck him before

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Anonymous OP 1d

Maybe if it was just a “hookup” and not a partner you were actually with, you should keep your expectations average

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Anonymous #35 1d

But why does that make it her job to teach him lol sex is supposed to be fun not work

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Anonymous OP 1d

No one owe anyone shit but it’s really not that hard to teach him

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Anonymous #14 1d

i was gonna have to finish myself anyway

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Anonymous OP 1d

Not if you taught him

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Anonymous #35 1d

Exactly

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Anonymous #29 1d

YES

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Anonymous #14 1d

no i do not think all the knowledge in the world could’ve made him make me cum

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Anonymous yellowpill 1d

how is that not an average expectation? if a guy got straight teeth he’d call it a hookup horror story.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Ok if he’s that dumb you have a point 😂

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Anonymous #1 1d

mostly pressing down too hard it hurts

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Anonymous #47 1d

Girl do you think I’m still with the man? 😭

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Anonymous #14 1d

literally thank you. op bitching and moaning about a problem with an easy solution

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Anonymous #35 1d

My mom Moans too but in her master bedroom

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Anonymous #67 1d

he was a hookup im not responsible for teaching him

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Anonymous #66 1d

that’s not my job and he was just a hookup anyway

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Anonymous OP 1d

U don’t need to teach them how, that’s not what I’m saying, just don’t lie and tell him he’s doing it good

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Anonymous #66 1d

i wanted him to stop not to be better

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Anonymous OP 1d

Then tell him to stop 😭❓❓

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Anonymous #51 1d

well he did regardless and that’s the only thing that matters to me

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Anonymous OP 1d

Stopped for the wrong reasons but I guess bro

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Anonymous #51 1d

hm i sure do wonder why i wouldn’t have wanted to tell him outright to stop touching me because he sucks at it

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Anonymous OP 1d

Cuz ur a pussy be so fr ✌️

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Anonymous #51 1d

well actually because we were completely alone in his house and he had weapons! so close though baby 🫶

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Anonymous OP 1d

I mean if anything I would have dipped if I knew that information but anything besides taking accountability babes ❤️🫶

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Anonymous #51 1d

dipped how babe he drove me

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Anonymous OP 1d

You don’t have to teach him what to do, but at least let him know he’s doing it wrong and to stop. Because now he’s gonna think that was the best sex you have ever had and he’s gonna do it to every girl from now on. You’ve cursed dozens. 😭

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Anonymous #67 1d

ive seen his face he’s not going to have ‘dozens’ of hookups

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Anonymous OP 1d

Yeah that’s context that was needed. In this situation ur completely in the right that’s terrifying.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Oof valid. But he was ugly and bad in bed? Raise your standards queen, you truly deserve better!

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Anonymous #67 1d

i regret hooking up with him more and more by the hour but at least he solidified the fact that i’m fully lesbian

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Anonymous OP 1d

“I was his first” no shi he aint know wtf to do bruh

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Anonymous OP 1d

So he’s a virgin? Makes sense and I don’t know what you expected out of a virgin. Don’t expect good sex at all from them, man or woman

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Anonymous #72 1d

well he’s been addicted to porn since he was 12 mb for thinking he picked up anything

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Anonymous OP 1d

Porn addict? Even worse. Having sex with a known gooner is crazy. I’m surprised he didnt have an ED from his fried brain and senses

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Anonymous #49 1d

…how is he meant to learn if not from his partners…

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Anonymous #73 1d

i learned just fine without any partners ever

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Anonymous #3 1d

you can just tell from the start if it’s worth it or not to try and communicate ngl

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Anonymous #75 1d

foot 🤤

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Anonymous OP 5h

You are so fucking entitled, it’s so funny. I hope you have a worse hook up more lol. It ain’t his fucking responsibility to make you feel good if u ain’t teaching him. Make yourself fell good hoe.

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Anonymous #74 5h

Valid. She ain’t communicating; she deserves bad sex ngl

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Anonymous #76 14m

?

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