Awww!I’m sorry to hear that! That doesn’t mean you’re “tainted”( you’re not). It’s just the fact that you’re healing from something traumatic that happened to you. Any good partner would understand and would still love you for it

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i feel this so hard girl I can’t even be intimate with my partner bc of my sa :(

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You are absolutely not “tainted.” What happened to you doesn’t define you. You will find love and joy.

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I’m sorry baby. i felt the same way for years. i finally found someone who i feel safe with that respects, understands, and acknowledges the trauma. we have conversations about what’s okay. you will find the perfect person who loves you so much and makes you feel safe and cared for. don’t lose hope on that ❤️

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I would reccomend the song “We’ll never have sex” by Leith Ross. You are not tainted or anything of the sort. And I can assure that there are plenty of people out there that will be able to see it too. Time will heal this :)

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If a partner won’t engage with you, disengage yourself. If they won’t put in any effort they don’t get anything

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