If it was unwanted it was, if you wanted to stop and you made that known, it was

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Omg yesssss. I question it to this day and it’s been a couple years now. I do not at all care about the guy. I hate him. But I still question

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I just cannot imagine forcing myself onto anybody, why are men comfortable with coercing us?? Like I need to *know* my partner wants me before I try anything. 😭

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when i learned what coercion is i was SICK 😔

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not one single unique experience bro

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And the best part is when no one believes you and takes his side. Also love when they try to explain it away like it didn’t or couldn’t hurt you

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i was literally passed out drunk but still question it cuz what if i woke up and consented and just don’t remember 🫩

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If you felt violated, you were violated. Period.

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I was literally thinking about this last night. I’m still kinda confused over it

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YES! I didn’t realize being SA’ed also included saying no until you finally give in! Crazy work

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I’m trying to decide if my consent was dubious because I was too drunk the first time but then I went back and hooked up with him again while sober

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Was it consensual? If no then yes it’s SA. If yes then at any point did you make the fact that you didn’t like it know? If yes then it’s SA. If no then it was not.

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I have a rule for myself that I never stay in a situation with a man where I feel uncomfortable to avoid being rude. If you have a bad feeling about a date, cancel it. If you’re talking to an acquaintance at a party and it’s just off somehow, leave. If you want to have sex with him and then go up to his room and then as you’re walking in just get this sense of dread, leave. If you dont want to see him ever again but feel like you HAVE to break up with him in person… leave.

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man i’m still confused over it 😭🙏🏽it’s been 2 years and i just don’t know

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Ah yes understandable

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