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I just lost my virginity to a guy I met at my first college party. He told me after that I was so tight it felt like anal with a man. Do I kill myself?
#ijusthadsex#wtf
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Anonymous 11w

He’s sarcastically praising your pussy

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Anonymous 11w

That’s the worst thing anyone could say I’m sorry

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Anonymous 11w

I think he was trying to give you a compliment.

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Anonymous 11w

is this crazy? yes. is it a COMPLIMENT? ALSO YES!

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Anonymous 11w

Guy discovers women’s anatomy

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Anonymous 11w

I would assume so, yes.🫩

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Anonymous 11w

He didn’t have to clarify it was with a man 😭😭

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Anonymous 11w

honestly just kill him atp

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Anonymous 11w

What 😭

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Anonymous 11w

People not understanding bisexuality in this thread 😒

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Anonymous 11w

don’t be doing all this shit guys don’t care about you girl as you can see please take care of yourself 🫶🏼

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Anonymous 11w

LMFAOOOO it’s not necessarily a bad thing that he said- like it’s nothing to feel bad about it’s more like a why was THAT his choice of words (i think evb here is taking this way too seriously) 😭

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Anonymous 11w

I need to ask u smth

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Anonymous 11w

i’m crying this is awful

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Anonymous 11w

Yes find a way immediately

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Anonymous 11w

ew

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Anonymous 11w

Dude ur kinda cooked omg

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Anonymous 11w

I say no, just get better experiences

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Anonymous 11w

Why would you lose your virginity to someone you just met

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Anonymous 11w

You just get to alter your taste in men for next time

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Anonymous 11w

Somewhere out there, this post has a counterpart with the hashtag “#ijusthadseeeeeeexanditfeltsogood”

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Anonymous 11w

oh. my. god.

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Anonymous 11w

I’m so confused, the comments are a mix of homophobia and utter nonsense I’m struggling to keep up 😭😭✌️

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Anonymous 11w

I think that was supposed to be a compliment?

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Anonymous 11w

Avg experience #relatable

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Anonymous 11w

I would die on the spot 😖

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Anonymous 11w

You gotta kill him first

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Anonymous 11w

i hated reading this

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Anonymous 11w

Oh ok period you’re tight

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Anonymous 11w

Omg girl, I’m so sorry this happened to you. Don’t you ever see him again.

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Anonymous 11w

Dang how we give it to a gay dude

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Anonymous 11w

this is actually an egregious thing to say to a woman after cracking

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Anonymous 11w

Why are we normalizing biphobia in 2026 also that’s a compliment and a hilarious one

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Anonymous 11w

Omfg

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Anonymous 11w

Was it SAE?

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Anonymous 11w

You should prolly get tested

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Anonymous 11w

Don’t worry queen you da best

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Anonymous 11w

i’m so fucking sorry

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Anonymous 11w

Never been with a virgin before but being the first to open a gate is a honorable thing for someone to make a comment like that. I’d have treated you a lot nicer!!!

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Anonymous 11w

Kill him with a gun

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Anonymous 11w

you’re one hell of an Ally

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Anonymous 11w

baby kill HIM

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Anonymous 11w

😭😭

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Anonymous 11w

Poorly worded, but certainly meant as a compliment.

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Anonymous 11w

kill him tf

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Anonymous 11w

obvs he didn’t prep u enough

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Anonymous 11w

Describe what he look like!

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Anonymous 11w

yes..

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Anonymous 11w

rip your dms

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Anonymous 11w

Yes honestly

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Anonymous 11w

omg.

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Anonymous 11w

I’m so sorry this happened to you 😭

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Anonymous 11w

I feel bad for you I’m sorry that happener

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Anonymous 11w

lowk

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Anonymous 11w

Yes you have to

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Anonymous 11w

Yes

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Anonymous 11w

YO LMFAO

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Anonymous 11w

This is so fucking funny goodbye.

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Anonymous 11w

For sure he’s thinking about killing himself u good shawty.

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Anonymous 11w

Maybe there’s some things he has to come to terms with ngl 😭

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Anonymous 11w

Yikes is all I gotta say yikes

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Anonymous 11w

it’s a compliment trust me

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Anonymous 11w

kill him instead

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Anonymous 11w

DM me

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Anonymous 11w

This not being homophobic 😭 she’s allowed to feel disturbed not everyone is okay with having non hetero partners - 😭🤞 hopefully this is a lesson learned girl

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Anonymous 11w

was it a beta?

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Anonymous 11w

Are you that homophobic?

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Anonymous 11w

That just means every girl he’s had sex with is loose asf. Tight is good dw. He’ll realize that later on 😭

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Anonymous 11w

god forbiddddd

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

I don’t think it is… it’s the worst way he could have worded it but I think he was trying to compliment you?

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Anonymous 11w

Bisexuality

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Anonymous 11w

Bisexuality is a thing 💁

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Anonymous 11w

he’s bi…

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Anonymous 11w

You’re weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 11w

Kill him wtf

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Anonymous 11w

Your username is supercoolsmartandsexygal. I think we know all we need to know😭😭

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Anonymous 11w

That’s not how that works guys clean, that’s like saying no one should touch your hand cause you wipe

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Anonymous replying to -> #37 11w

internalized biphobia/homophobia tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

men aren’t very good at that 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #33 11w

Can u describe the guy bro sounds familiar

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Anonymous 11w

Yep, this is sad ☹️

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Anonymous replying to -> #37 11w

Cause it’s unsettling

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Anonymous replying to -> #37 11w

Not everyone cleans the right way

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Anonymous 11w

Eww

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 11w

Women don’t get “loose” that’s not how those muscles work. They were aroused bc they obviously liked him

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Anonymous 11w

What the fuck bro this might be the worst sentence I’ve read in a long time

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 11w

becoming “loose” is just becoming stretched out which is literally what happens when you have sex constantly lmao. When your celibate it shrinks back. I’m speaking on experience 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 11w
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Anonymous replying to -> #37 11w

I mean I’d never do anal with a girl either and I only have sex after we shower

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Anonymous replying to -> #54 11w

Sorry bout that

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 11w

I think u might be imagining some things bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #53 11w

that is the reality I’m sorry if you feel ashamed otherwise 🤯

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

nah i’m sorry this actually happened to you queen

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Anonymous replying to -> #58 11w

I did that, I figured it would be least likely to crash and burn if it was just a one time thing, and I don’t regret it at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 11w

I just feel like the first time of anything should be special

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Anonymous replying to -> #30 11w

This comment made me giggle out loud

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Anonymous replying to -> #53 11w

That is NOT how you prep for that…

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Anonymous replying to -> #52 11w

I’m not saying it’s wrong per say and I’m not yucking someone else’s yum, just strange to me because my brain isn’t wired that way idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #58 11w

So then make sure yours is special 🙄 you’re on the hookup yak bro what posts did you expect to see

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Anonymous replying to -> #61 11w

People always regret losing it to someone who wasn’t special (including me)

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 11w

It’s been almost a year and I don’t have any regrets, just because it’s your experience doesn’t mean it will be mine

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 11w

I lost it to someone who was special and I still regret it bro. There’s no perfect scenario for everyone. Just do what you want and accept that other people will do what’s best for them

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Anonymous 11w

Read the Sinister Tradition

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 11w

I'm sure it's a good thing to him since he likes dudes but he's still comparing her to a man and also implying that men are better at sex so I don't know how you expect her to feel about that other than offended

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 11w

what did i do😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> george_carlin_ 11w

Are you homophobic?

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Anonymous replying to -> #81 11w

Why? Theres something wrong with being gay? I thought women were the gays greatest allies?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Incredibly homophobic and bigoted thing to say

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 11w

Reported. You want to do that because he’s probably bisexual? What an incredibly homophobic and bigoted thing to say

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

Erm what are you talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

I thinks it just case comparing your current hookup to your past ones is a dick move. Saying this as a bisexual btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

it was a joke…cus they said they wanted to kill themselves from a comment someone else made so…take the joke or get off the app it had nothing to do with sexuality im a proud ally

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 11w

Lol no way that was the best lie u could come up with

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

notice how nobody agrees with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 11w

If what you just told me was true, the “joke” would’ve been a reply to that comment. You’re homophobic, a bigot and a liar. Have you no shame?

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

genuinely what are you talking abt

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 11w

Alright, so you are homophobic, a bigot, a liar, and also a moron lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

so you take shit out of context and can’t clearly see that this was a reply to the comment on the post stating this person wanted to “kill them selves” literally not homophobic at all your dumb asf and need to reevaluate

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

I am

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

it’s not ab being gay 😭it’s ab comparing a woman u js cracked to a mans asshole like u js asked for an extra piece of toast or smth

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Anonymous replying to -> #30 11w

Society really is regressing we’re already back to wanting to kill men for having sex with other men I’m dead

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Anonymous replying to -> #96 11w

did you have extra classes in elementary school?

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

sighs in blue hair wuss fatigue

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Anonymous replying to -> #97 11w

Nah my elementary school didn’t even have clubs and every class was like just one teacher for the whole day. I did skip a grade in math though once I got to middle school. We shouldn’t be killing anyone for complimenting someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #96 11w

oh boy

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Anonymous replying to -> #96 11w

sybau omg

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Anonymous replying to -> #98 11w
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Anonymous replying to -> #97 11w

Lol, at least you’re honest. Much more respectable than the lying women who act like they’re allies but in actuality are disgusted by gay men. Evil.

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Anonymous replying to -> #96 11w

Exactly. And the women sitting here lying through their teeth about their biphobia is genuinely disgusting

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

That’s not the problem, the problem is that he is comparing her to someone else who doesn’t even know or care about. That is messed up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

not everything’s abt him being gay. im not saying im an alli either idgaf who you sleep w bc it’s not my business. the og comment was a joke abt what he said, not him being gay. apparently none of yall can pick up on sarcasm

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Anonymous replying to -> #55 11w

You’re lying to yourself if you actually believe that’s the general consensus of what the problem is. There is blatant biphobia / disgust that he might be gay throughout the comments.

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

Not everything is biphobia, it’s basic common sense and respect. If I’m dating you or it’s just a casual hookup, I don’t care about who did you sleep with and I wouldn’t care less about it if you’re comparing me to any other individual; whether it’s a man or a woman.

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Anonymous replying to -> #55 11w

I understand that, but that is absolutely not the whole picture of why people in the comments are disgusted. Two things can be true. What you’re saying about comparison is definitely apart of it, but him being bi is also absolutely apart of it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

In my opinion, it is just about comparing me to someone else. It is such a horrible thing to do and it is completely unacceptable. So disgusting, and it doesn’t have to do with his sexual orientation.

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

are you dumb? that was a gross comment for the guy to make because it’s misogynistic. there’s nothing homophobic about it. you’re getting crazy over this and op literally said he’s bi and it’s not a problem at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 11w

They’re rage baiting

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

Girl please seek therapy and touch grass

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 11w

You need to get seek some morals

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

Insulting people and assuming they’re hateful is not having good morals 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 11w

I’m not assuming anything. The proof is in the comments. I also didn’t insult anyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

Your lack of self awareness is astounding

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 11w

Nothing you say can change my mind. Remember, they hated Jesus for telling the truth.

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

I do know that, I’m a Christian but you attacking people is not what Jesus would want.

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 11w

Like you would know that. Begone

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

✝️✝️✝️

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 11w

After the Lindsay Clancy situation I’m not surprised by anything women do anymore

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Anonymous 11w

Now that’s just kinda misogynist tbh. Not absolutely everyone is like that. You gotta calm down a bit

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Anonymous replying to -> #96 11w

I never said every single woman is like that. But there is a general trend of a larger cohort of women than men supporting a mother who killed her 3 children. Its not misogynistic to point that out

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Everyone who replied to me took this shit way too seriously. I was not passing judgement on gay men or the validity of gay sex, I was simply stating my impression that saying what he said, was probably the worst way to try and compliment her in that moment. I know no girl would want to hear that, and I used exaggerated language to respond to it. I should have said “one of the worst things he could say in that moment” but that’s my bad. But calling me homophobic is ridiculous. Touch grass.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

The way someone openly admitted to being homophobic in this thread and they're coming for everyone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #87 10w

This comment section makes me really sad actually (agreeing with you)

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Anonymous replying to -> #99 10w

It is quite a perverted thing to say tho and gay guys are no better than straight guys w that stuff. I went out to drinks w my friend and his friends and they were ranking random guys on how tight they’d be

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