Hookup Horror Stories on Sidechat | I’m a man and lost my virginity a few months ago right before I turned 18. I was with my gf at the time and was super drunk and wasn’t 100% on board but she wanted to fuck so we did. We broke up and thinking back I really regret it, is this normal?

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I’m a man and lost my virginity a few months ago right before I turned 18. I was with my gf at the time and was super drunk and wasn’t 100% on board but she wanted to fuck so we did. We broke up and thinking back I really regret it, is this normal?

Anonymous 19h

so you were drunk (unable to give consent), as well as actively not giving enthusiastic consent (which wouldn't have mattered anyways as you were impaired and not able to do so)- this is SA straight up

Anonymous 11h

I think there is a difference between regretting doing something and being SA’d. I feel like so many people have shitty stories of losing their “virginities” that they wish they could change, and that is okay. Having sex for the first time is confusing, and we all have the rest of our lives to make up for the experiences that weren’t as “successful.” If YOU do not feel that it was SA, that is your lived experience. But, it is also completely okay if someday you look back over this and (1)

Anonymous

#1 19h

She was drunk too, but I don’t feel like it was SA cause I would have had my first time with her just I wish it was different circumstances and maybe a bit later when I felt ready

Anonymous

#2 11h

realize it might have been SA. No one can tell you that except you. It’s your life and your own personal experience, and however you choose to proceed with it is completely normal. If you need to talk more you can DM me

Anonymous

#1 2h

Since she was also drunk, did he rape her?