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This girl I’ve been hooking up with told me her bodycount is 24. She lost her virginity right before her 16th birthday when she was 15 and now she’s 25. So that means 2-3 bodies a year. My boy thinks 24 bodies is crazy but I don’t think it’s bad at all
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Anonymous 5w

giving when she lost it and the average of how many bodies it is a year. I feel like that’s a realistic number. What do you guys think? I’m also not judging her at all based off the fact that I’m 23 and mine is 44. I also lost mine when I was 19 😭

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Anonymous 5w

why do u gaf abt body count are you 16

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Anonymous 5w

Why would they want sex from someone who doesn’t know what they’re doing?

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah, as a man 2-3 per year isn’t bad by any means. I had a huge hoe phase in college and had 10 new partners in like six months and felt kinda icky off of that.

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Anonymous 4w

Body count never matters, could be 100+ and it wouldnt be a problem

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Anonymous 4w

Imma be real as long as shes clean or on meds for wtv who cares

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Anonymous 4w

Okay, can I ask you something. Do you think someone who’s been told how to drive a car verbally, but never behind the wheel, should get behind the wheel of a brand new corvette? Communication is important, but getting good at things takes practice.

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Anonymous 5w

Not y’all justifying sexual promiscuity

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Dude the fact yours is higher than hers means this all doesn’t even matter. Do you like her as a person ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Yeah she’s extremely cool. I fw her alot.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Then y’all are good.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I don’t think that’s bad but I feel like I should share that a girl I used to hookup with told me her body count was 22 and then right before new years she reposted a reel on her close friends ig story that said something along the lines of “new year means body count resets” so do with that information what you will

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

That’s one person being stupid.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Also for the record I care way more about someone being healthy and clean than their body count

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Yeah I am what’s wrong with it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

If you’re seriously asking me this, you’ve gotta grow up

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Yeah, genuinely, I agree with this. I don’t know why it’s such a common thing for people to want their partners to be super good at sex but have a low amount of bodies. Yeah you can learn a lot with even just one person but those skills won’t transfer to every single person you have sex with

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

You’re the one who can’t even cite a reason as to why it’s supposedly bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Okay, you tell me why it’s good then.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

It’s morally neutral, it’s not good or bad it’s just a choice

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

It’s not a position, it’s a property of people that exists in the real world. Thats like saying y’all are justifying gravity or people with blue eyes like im sorry reality is disappointing ig?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Being promiscuous is definitely not MORALLY neutral. You can try to justify it any way you want but MORALLY, we both know it’s not neutral. Let’s not lie to ourselves.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Sexual promiscuity is not something that people naturally possess. It’s a choice. It’s not comparable to gravity or people with blue eyes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

False. 1. Sexual promiscuity is something that people naturally possess. This fact can be explained very simply evolutionarily. If you are an animal which does not pair bond (humans have notable sexual dimorphism, competitive tendencies). It should also be mentioned strictly monogamous animals do not typically engage in adultery to the degree that animals like humans do. All of this is to say that humans not being a strict pair bonding species is a scientific fact.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

If human males could get a mutation to produce more sperm, faster they can mate more meaning that mutation gets spread more in the nonmonogamous animals AND underlying genetics influencing sexual promiscuity obviously encourage more mating and more genes being spread. It’s a very simple evolutionary mechanism.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

2. “ITS A CHOICE” Can you even actually demonstrate there is free will to begin with? What I would say, is you can cause flies, mice, monkeys and a wide and vast variety of animals to engage in mating behavior by altering their environment and stimulus provided. Humans are among the animal, and like all animals, they often responds to that stimulus. I’m not sure endocrinology nor neurobiology would confirm your claims of it absolutely being a choice.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

3. It’s not comparable to gravity or people with blue eyes. Both of gravity and blue eyes notably exist in external reality regardless of your opinion on it. So does sexual promiscuity and sadness.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

You’re still failing to articulate why it’s bad, you keep just saying “come on we both know” but no dawg I do not

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