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Ex bf used to sexualize my autism stimming (I rock back and forth while laying down when I’m stressed). He would tell me that I was “basically asking for it” and would always initiate sex that way. Even after I explained it to him. Fucking dickhead. 😐
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Anonymous 4w

In what world is that sexual 🫩

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Anonymous 4w

fuck him

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Anonymous 4w

out of curiosity, what do you mean by rocking back and forth while laying down? i can't really figure out what the physics of that are. either way the fact it was a stress response and he didnt care & still tried to do it with u is fucking crazy he needs to be institutionalized fr

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Anonymous 4w

He needs to be locked up

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Anonymous 4w

that’s terrible omfg

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Anonymous 4w

I can’t understand what is sexual about this, but I’m not sure why finding it attractive would be wrong either.

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Anonymous 3w

Girl fuck that guy im so sorry. I’m an autistic guy i would straight up leave if that happened

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

not literally tho he don’t deserve that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

It’s wrong (to me) because I stim this way when I’m anxious or stressed. I don’t want to have sex in those situations, I want to be comforted or left alone. I explained this to him multiple times and he’d always be like “aw.. anyways let’s fuck.” I was also 18 when we dated, so I had a hard time flat out saying no bc I felt bad. Just a complicated situation. I’m 22 now & happy he’s out of my life lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

finding your partner being stressed attractive is weird imo. I feel like the second it was explained I would’ve instantly been so incredibly turned off like? It’s like how you stop being horny if your partner starts crying during sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

because it shows he doesnt care about his partner's feelings, only his own. it's kind of like if you were crying and your partner told you it turns them on and tried to initiate even after you told them it was because you were sad or stressed

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I lay on my side and rock back and forth. Like left to right, not up and down. Imagine the motion of a rolling pin I think, but I’m not shifting off of my side.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

ohh gotcha that makes sense

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