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sadly he was my bf at the time but i told him to ask for consent when we do something sexual because most of the time i’ll just do it for him because he wants it and he told me “ na idk because it just ruins the vibe” and he says he’s a feminist 😐
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Anonymous 23h

bb that’s sa ☹️

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Anonymous 21h

my love making sure everyone is ready and safe doesn’t “ruin the vibe”…That’s just basic decency. If that ruined his vibe then fuck his vibe.

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Anonymous 17h

Also anyone who isn’t a moron knows that it doesn’t ruin the vibe. If asking for consent ruins the vibe then the vibe wasn’t there to begin with

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Anonymous 16h

First time touching a girls boobs I asked "is it okay if I?" it's a few words that get a yes or no. It's not that hard to take a no and be respectful😭🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

yeah i know he said the same thing when he went to a party and the DJ stopped the set for like a minute to talk about consent he said that ruined the vibe too but he so worried about women’s mental health and sa’s being performative online posting all this shit so online posting all of this shit online about women being safe

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

exactly it doesn’t it makes everything clearer on what both people wants but he’s already a hard guy to talk to because ho hopes one convo to another

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