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How do hookups even work? “Im horny wanna fuck?” I may just not be smooth enough or trusting enough but it’s something I’ve always wanted to try.
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Anonymous 11w

I usually take them out on an actual date, then we go back to my place and fuck

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Anonymous 11w

Depends if ur a guy or girl. Girls have ir easier

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Anonymous 11w

Usually grab something to eat and if they invite me to their place afterwards Ik we’re probably hooking up.

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Anonymous 11w

it’s literally that “hey you wanna come over?” or go do something rq and then go back and hookup. more fun the second way

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Anonymous 11w

i’m female btw but yea it’s better if you already know what you’re getting into. you don’t have to beat around the bush

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Anonymous replying to -> puprple_lick 11w

HOW??!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

that’s nice :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

You can be that blunt about it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

But like how does that transpire? Is it just “Want to head back to my place?” and that’s it or like, when you’re at their place, how do they initiate?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I can use my most recent one as an example, we went out to eat, got a few drinks, and then she invited me back to see her dog, I said sure. She put on a show, we cuddled for a bit and when the mood was right we started making out. After a bit I started making moves to see if she wanted to go further, she did, and we hooked up. Simple as that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

After that initial one, she would just invite me to her place or we’d go after a date and hookup if the mood was there

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

I know it’s a mood thing and Im probably just being too worried or whatever, but like how do you make a move that is like respectful and awful. When I ask this to others, they tell me that asking directly is a mood killer but I also dont wanna do anything without their permission or comfort.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Maybe I’m weird but I usually ask straight up if they want to move it to the bed, get in the backseat, go further than just kissing etc and it usually works out for me so idk what to tell you there

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

That’s a good response. Thank you 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

yes for sure! you can be direct and also flirty and in the vibe. also if you invite someone over it’s pretty obvious what yall r planning to do. you dont have to say, wanna come over to hookup, they’ll get the memo haha.

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