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I made out w a friend a day ago. we’ve been in the same friend group for years and the hookup was great but I tried to kiss her at a club last night but she leaned back after having realized we were near our friends. Did I fumble and if not wtf do I do?
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Anonymous 7w

Talk about it it’s never gonna get past an awkward one night thing if you both don’t nut up and tell each other how you really feel cause obviously at least one of you wants to be more than friends

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Anonymous 7w

Yeah probably talk about it. Maybe she wasn’t ready to show ur friends. Also not everyone wants to do pda

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Anonymous 7w

talk to her about it, but specifically ask what she wants the status of your relationship to be (friends, fwb, romantic partners, etc) and respect those boundaries. please please please take it from me and do not jeopardize your friendship i miss my ex situationship so much because i knew he had a crush on me and i finally gave him a chance for the “what if” and i wish i had kept him as a best friend because now i don’t have him at all

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Anonymous 7w

Take it slow and chat about it

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Anonymous 7w

update: everything’s fine. going to move on as if nothing happened and she didn’t feel weird at all. going to let it take its course and let a label assign itself when the time feels right.

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Anonymous 7w

whatever you do, do not leave any questions you have unanswered. be straightforward in whatever questions you ask. don’t beat around the bush and don’t accept bullshit issues. good communication makes any friendship/relationship/etc a thousand times easier

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