Anonymous #1 20w

I WAS THERE. AT LEAST YOURE HEARING ABT IT SECOND HAND

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Anonymous OP 20w

“Let’s be adults about this”…DUDE WTF 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #1 20w

I was high and dude just told me he viewed me like a sister after he did a lot of things you would never do to someone you view like that. brother that’s weird as fuck to say to someone and I was weirded out and confused and high as a kite so yea that’s what I said💀

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Anonymous OP 20w

do you miss him?

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Anonymous OP 20w

I’d genuinely start crying

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Anonymous #2 20w

I miss being his friend and regret us hooking up at all because I miss hanging out with him. and for a bit it was kind of my worst nightmare but idk

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Anonymous #1 20w

I mean I didn’t really have feelings for him, I was just going with it tbh. but it was just a wild thing for him to say. like I didn’t even take it personally, I was just like whattt the fuck that’s a weird ass thing to say to someone

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Anonymous OP 20w

No that’s honestly concerning. U don’t gotta have feelings and he doesn’t either, it was casual and he made it into something so weird

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Anonymous #1 20w

right and that’s wtf im saying. like we started making out again after I said the whole “we can be friends who make out” thing, and then he made it super weird and I was like woahhhhhh wtf wait a gd minute

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Anonymous OP 20w

I would’ve left that second ngl, does he have a sister?

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Anonymous #1 20w

I don’t think he does? he has a twin brother tho, I kind of was way closer with his twin, so I was worried it would cause issues for me with both of them. but then idk I never really hung out with them again anyway

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Anonymous OP 20w

Ok phew cause it would’ve been worse if he did. Also…twins.. choo choo if he wasn’t weird asf for saying that

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Anonymous #1 20w

it gets better tho I let him fucking sleepover after that because I felt bad kicking him out and I was so anxious about losing him as my friend, I did not handle it well

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Anonymous OP 20w

Dude I get what u mean I get so anxious to lose friends so I get that. I don’t think you should’ve felt guilty, u felt weirded out and he didn’t seem bothered by that so u were valid in kicking him out

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Anonymous #1 20w

I was just so sad he was such an important friend to me

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Anonymous OP 20w

I’m sorry to hear that girly, it’s gonna get better, trust

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Anonymous beestboy 20w

is it tho…? it’s pretty weird to say that to someone right after hooking up with them

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Anonymous OP 20w

Yes it is cuz bro was also high so yeah he’ll say some stupid shit , idt it was that serious tbh . U just didn’t match his freak i suppose

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Anonymous beestboy 20w

🤨

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Anonymous OP 20w

Bro stopped to think like damn we were always friends tho , and he meant he saw u as a really close sibling , idt that was tied to the sexual activity yall were performing

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Anonymous OP 20w

Yall should talk about it

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Anonymous beestboy 20w

I know what he meant but this is hookup horror stories and this is my hookup horror story, both for his reaction and mine :) I said earlier I responded like that because I was high out of my mind lol

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Anonymous OP 20w

Yea for sure, yall both was high fr lol

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Anonymous beestboy 20w

we don’t talk anymore. he’s welcome to reach out if he wants to

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Anonymous OP 20w

You don’t wanna reach out?

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Anonymous beestboy 20w

nah

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Anonymous OP 20w

Real

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Anonymous #4 20w

Some dudes really are their own worst enemies

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Anonymous #4 20w

I mean honestly yea. not the best ive had, but very very good

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Anonymous OP 20w

He had to be gay

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Anonymous OP 20w

Damn, that really sucks. I don’t mean to sound preachy or nosy, but That’s why everyone says it’s not always a good idea to hookup with friends because it will either strengthen your bond or make things really awkward. I’d recommend maybe seeing if you can contact him again and either pretend like it never happened, or talk about it directly with him. I don’t mean to pry, but where you and him close friends?

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Anonymous OP 20w

Sorry about the comment I left if it was too personal, this may sound weird but I just get personally deeply sad when I hear of close friends who break apart because I always have some voice in the back of my mind that things can be fixed, I’m also trying to work on my communication skills and I personally confront awkward moments directly, but obviously that may not work for everyone. it was scary for me when I had to directly confront a very weird feeling situation myself with someone.

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Anonymous #8 19w

that’s what im saying. dude was all around weird

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Anonymous #7 19w

lol not to be that guy. but this wasn’t a planned thing. this was something that just happened. I get it and i appreciate the sentiment. we were close friends. we didn’t talk about it and just pretended it never happened. I’m always confrontational and direct, it just happened that we drifted after that. sad and disappointing but probably the way things just have to be for now

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Anonymous #10 19w

YEP lol

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Anonymous #11 19w

Honestly, y’all could probably be friends with benefits if you like

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Anonymous #12 19w

I dunno but he did lol. it was just supposed to be a fun lil casual thing

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Anonymous OP 19w

That just seems so intimate of a thing to do 😭

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Anonymous #12 19w

it was idk. I was willing to not make a huge deal out of it. but in hindsight it’s probably better the way things ended up tbh

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