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pinkyhellokittyy

Dis “pledge” kept trying to kiss me and grab me. Once I was drunk he looked cuter so I kissed him and then he trying having sex and I didn’t wanna. He kept asking and I was like “I’m actually a man” I was praying he would fall for it, he left me alone😂😜
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Anonymous 25w

That’s a risky af move but I’m glad he didn’t react violently

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Anonymous 25w

Yeah as a trans person, I’m really not sure that’s your safest bet. A lot of guys who are already prone to grapey behavior will feel like that’s an attack on their fragile masculinity and become more violent. Genuinely very happy that you are safe though

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Anonymous 25w

i don’t like that this kinda implies that trans women aren’t women because they definitely are

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Anonymous 25w

I’m definitely knit picking here but you’re allowed to say the word rape on yikyak, they don’t sensor sensitive topics

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 25w

Ikkk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 25w

How does it imply that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 25w

Trust, I’m well aware that trans women are women. My point was that a lot of guys don’t see it that way and will act violently on their transphobia. Again, trust, I speak from experience here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 25w

i was talking about OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

“i’m actually a man”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 25w

Given that she’s telling this story about herself I think that was just phrased in whatever way would make him leave and not her being transphobic towards herself

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Anonymous 25w

this comment was unnecessary and comes off transphobic. the commenter did not bring up anything about trans people concealing they are trans before sex and you brought that up for no reason - another trans person

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

some people censor because just looking at the word can trigger flashbacks in someone with PTSD

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 25w

Still, if I were a man I’d like to know before even kissing wtf do you mean. If op was really trans, telling him after the fact could’ve really pissed him off

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 25w

i never disagreed with that. i said the comment was unnecessary

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 25w

I thought that’s what they were saying…

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

i’m saying it’s harmful to trans women to say that. it’s like using any marginalized community to your advantage to get out of a situation. we should be mindful of things. because minorities don’t see benefits. it’s genuinely dangerous to exist

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 25w

I really doubt that g is doing much when we’re still discussing the topic

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

as a victim of that type of violence, it definitely helps not to have to read that word. i genuinely see (and sometimes feel) it happening as if it was one of those days again. it genuinely is that serious

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