Anonymous #2 1d

Yea cuz I totally left cuz i found it magnificent

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Anonymous #4 5h

We really just calling anything rape these days 😐

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Anonymous #5 4h

lacking consent = rape

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Anonymous #4 3h

So where do you draw the line? If he touched the girls boobs during sex without asking, is that rape? If she grabbed his biceps during sex without asking is that rape? What about his balls? Sex isn't a game of 24 questions like sometimes things can just be explored and the if you don't get verbal affirmation or receive a "no", then you stop. Not everything is fucking rape you're just diluting the term which sucks for people who've actually been raped

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Anonymous #5 2h

consent seems to be a foreign concept to you. the basics are: consent must be clear, knowing, and voluntary. consent to one action does not mean consent to all. consent to one time does not mean future consent. consent while being cognitively impaired does not mean its actually consensual. consent must be maintained and can always be revoked. there ya go, now that u know don't rape anyone.

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Anonymous #5 2h

if someone isn't willing or able to speak full sentences don't touch them. and rape is not touching a girls boobs without consent. that's sexual assault. try googling

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Anonymous #4 2h

Great. So by your definition, if a woman was having consensual sex with a man and he grabbed her boobs without asking, and she moved his hands away from her boobs and they continued on with 0 issues, then that woman can now say she's been sexually assaulted? And she can press charges? Because if that's what you believe, then that's what's wrong with the world rn

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Anonymous #4 2h

I would never rape or sexually assault anybody and every girl I've always been very aware and verbal with during any sort of sexual activity. And I understand your book definition of rape and assault, trust me. But it gets to a point. I'm not gonna pause every 5 seconds to ask her if I can touch her thighs or caress her hair etc, and I don't expect her to do that for me either. There's certain things that you're able to do that don't require verbal communication in the moment.

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Anonymous #5 2h

it's not my definition. it's common knowledge

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Anonymous #5 2h

caressing her hair is making light of sexual assault and u know it. stop deflecting

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Anonymous #4 1h

It's not making light of it. I'm trying to get you to draw a line because this is the problem these days; there is no line. Rape/sexual assault during consensual intercourse has so much gray area and it's the reason why accusations like this are extremely overplayed these days. If it's not hair, then is it the face? If a girl doesn't like her inner thighs touched but doesn't say it beforehand, is it sexualassault? The modern definition that you keep quoting leaves so much up for interpretation.

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Anonymous #4 1h

And the fact that you can't answer yes/no to my question's that require a yes/no answer... I mean that just shows that you also realize there's a big gray area here.

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