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Hookup Horror Stories 6w
First hookup since new years only for my pp to not go up. Never happened to me before and I don’t watch porn too and I workout and eat healthy💔😞 only difference is I’m taking Accutane now so idk
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Anonymous 6w

Performance anxiety is a bitch, even people who sleep around a lot get it (referring to myself here)

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Anonymous 6w

damn that sucks i’m sorry to hear that :/ def reach out to ur dr if u can, u deserve to be able to enjoy sex

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Anonymous 6w

Don’t worry king. I have never watched 🌽 , I don’t over jerk it (usually every other day), at the time I wasn’t on any medication, but my dih just did not want to work. Went hard then soft then hard then soft. Frustrating lol. But I think it was performance anxiety like #2 said, especially since I’m inexperienced lmao.

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Anonymous 6w

it’s more mental than anything

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Anonymous 6w

It happens man just gotta roll with it and try again some other time

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Anonymous 6w

Accutane can do that. Talk to your doctor. There’s stuff you can do. Of course everyone gets a failure to launch occasionally so you might see if it happens again.

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Anonymous 6w

happened to me on what was supposed to be the first time last year

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

It’s so normal to go from soft to hard to soft to hard etc, we’re not in a porno and we can’t keep it up for like hours straight (unless it’s just reallyyyyyy good sex) I take breaks and it’s fine to just be silly and talk, I enjoy the downtime and appreciate their patience

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Yeah I’ll see what the doc says. I started Accutane and my new job at the same time and my job is stressful ngl so have no idea what is causing it between both. I do notice my sex drive has collapsed in recent months. Definitely talking to the doc or derm about this next month

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