Anonymous #1 6w

Fuck them

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Anonymous #6 6w

preferably more, but 15 to 30 is the bare minimum (in most cases) for PiV sex to not be painful. physical changes to the vaginal canal happen during arousal, it’s not just a “mood” thing.

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Anonymous #6 6w

Can’t believe this isn’t taught in sex ed.

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Anonymous #2 6w

okay you kinda sound like a national socialist ngl, they said this about queer people like yeah fuck abusers and manipulators but is it possible to say that without echoing this stuff?

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Anonymous #7 6w

Bro. What are you even talking about. Queerness is not preversion and nobody aids queerness bc unfortunately most people are homophobes. The hell about my statement sounds like nazis?

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Anonymous #7 6w

Like if you hear about preverted men and instantly think about queer people then i think you’re the problem actually

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Anonymous #2 6w

literally queer, and a historian lol

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Anonymous #2 6w

They said the same shit, they just said degenerates

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Anonymous #7 6w

Okay so am i i’m not instantly thinking about other queer people when i hear about societal impact on the perversion of men. Also isn’t it more a nazi talking point to blame porn entirely? My statement was arguing against that point, since the original post was blaming porn, and placing the blame mainly on the idividual and the patriarchy (society). Is that something nazis do

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Anonymous #2 6w

we’re both vaguely pro porn, deeply pro queer, and probably pro safe and consensual perversion. It just rubs me the wrong way to have someone ostensibly on my side echoing our enemies.

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Anonymous #7 6w

Okay, so do you want me to specify the patriarchy instead of society next time to make my argument more painfully obvious?

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Anonymous #7 6w

And did i say degenerates or did i say perverted men.

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Anonymous #7 6w

Okay you still haven’t explained how I’m doing that

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Anonymous #9 6w

we do! both our vaginas, and our clits and vulvas. the clitoris is an analogous and homologous structure to the penis, so the blood vessels in it fill with blood and the erectile tissue swells the same way a boner would to increase sensitivity. for this reason, when talking to men, I often compare having sex where a partner neglects the clitoris to a situation where someone tried to have sex with him and just never touched his penis the whole time.

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Anonymous #8 6w

never felt so seen in my life

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Anonymous OP 6w

DO NOT fuck them

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Anonymous #5 6w

Right!!! I had no idea

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Anonymous #6 6w

What if I like eating pussy sooooo this ain’t no problem

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Anonymous #12 6w

HAHAHAHAHHA

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Anonymous #16 6w

dirty talk dry humping low lights making out touching everywhere kissing everywhere like be HUNGRY for it but not impatient. also can’t stress dirty talk enough. sometimes music but don’t change the mood by stopping to connect to a speaker and put on a playlist lolllll anyways did i mention dirty talk

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Anonymous #4 6w

Can’t believe this isn’t the bare minimum

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Anonymous #3 6w

a girl can dream

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Anonymous #16 6w

I'm a huge fan of a long sloppy makeout sesh and some dry humping

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Anonymous #17 6w

Bare minimum fr

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Anonymous #6 6w

I like to think I’m pretty savvy but I actually genuinely did not know this. Usually do ~20min beforehand, but kinda just thought it was for the sake of the mood moreso than an actual anatomical reason. Interesting!

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Anonymous #8 6w

I don’t know how someone can go through life hung and not once be told at least or once ACKNOWLEDGE that being so means more foreplay in most situations. It’s baffling. Like this should be common sense, bigger thing dilates muscles more, means more strain, means more prep is needed to avoid pain or injury. Ig the gym bros just need to coach the fuck boys man, idk. They know this!

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Anonymous #13 6w

Ok maybe this is just my experience but I have never seen a 4 inch tampon? They’re usually like half that

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Anonymous #6 6w

Maybe I’m just easy or something because it’s never taken me more than 15 mins absolute max

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Anonymous #4 6w

How to get better at dirty talk should I do it to myself in the mirror or what

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Anonymous #22 6w

Shoot that guy’s balls off

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Anonymous #22 6w

Yeah that’s rape

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Anonymous #22 6w

Castrate him and send him to the mines

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Anonymous #22 6w

that was sexual assault, I’m so sorry :(

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Anonymous #21 6w

Depends what ur into

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Anonymous #22 6w

I made it clear to my ex I had 0 desire to do anal and there were numerous instances where he would “accidentally” stick it in. I even offered him an out if it meant that much to him 😭 so sorry this happened to u

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Anonymous #19 6w

It’s because a lot of the porn they watch is centered on the men’s pleasure and a lot of times the woman pornstar is ACTING like its pleasurable for a man to just immediately stick his dick inside of her even though the male pornstar massaged her for 0.2 seconds while she gave him a blowjob for the majority of the video 😂 or they know and they just don’t care that we aren’t fully aroused.

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Anonymous #4 6w

To add to this foreplay also begins before you enter the bedroom. Make her feel special, don’t neglect her emotionally, flirt with her like you did when you first met (if you’re in a relationship with her). If she’s in a relationship w you, you clearly did something right to get her to commit, so just do what you did in the beginning. This may sound crazy but the way you treat someone outside if the bedroom will determine how safe, comfortable, and aroused they are in the bedroom.

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Anonymous #19 6w

As a hung dude, I didn’t know this was a thing. Like I do foreplay because it’s fun but I was never told that it’s important for the girl to be able to accommodate you. Definitely something that needs to be discussed more often

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