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why will men fuck chubby girls and obsess over their bodies in private but will never date them? i think i’m pretty and have a good personality but keep falling into this trap bc of some pudge?
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Anonymous 1w

I will scream it atop a mountain theres nothing private about it

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Anonymous 1w

Because publicly they care more about the social capital associated with their partner than how much they personally like them.

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Anonymous 1w

Idk but they’re trippin

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Anonymous 1w

I think this is just a man thing in general because I’m very skinny and have the exact same problem

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Anonymous 1w

Because men don’t think for themselves they listen to society rather than their own hearts. Society will tell them to date a skinny woman even though her personality may be bad but will reject a bigger woman that may have an amazing personality simply because of societal standards are actually harsher towards men believe it or not.

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Anonymous 1w

Girl start being selfish thats the only way to not feel like this

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Anonymous 6d

bc they’re chasers. men like this are usually either insecure about being into bigger women, or just fetishize big women for their size and aren’t romantically interested in them

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Anonymous 1d

They probably want male validation. (I do not mean this in a gay way).

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Anonymous 1w

Gym time

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Anonymous 1w

they are probably fat phobic and also insecure about that. But also, I feel like Men man can fuck people without having like the emotions for someone and I’ll still feel good.

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Anonymous 1w

Idk what you’re talking about

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Anonymous 1w

Something tells us it’s more than “some” pudge

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1w

Bro thinks we’re on his team

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