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broke up with my girlfriend because she says we “weren’t having enough sex” (6-10 times a week) and I “owe it to her” because I have a big dick and it’s “rude to not let her experience it more clouding her mind with thoughts about sex”
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Anonymous 1d

some men drown while others die of thirst

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Anonymous 1d

wow i hate everyone who’s telling you that you weren’t being appreciative. this is awful. you shouldn’t feel like you’re being used or like the relationship is built off of sex. you did the right thing in breaking up with her.

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Anonymous 1d

aww i feel so bad for op clearly you weren’t being valued as much as you should be i hope you find a girl out there who loves to do things other than just sex

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Anonymous 1d

That sucks. Sorry man

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Anonymous 1d

Oh my god guys what the hell is wrong with yall??? If the gender roles were swapped you would be way more sympathetic. OP I’m so sorry that happened to you, you deserve so much better. And everyone else, get some critical thinking skills jesus christ.

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Anonymous 1d

im sorry

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Anonymous 1d

oh no my steak is too juicy ahh post

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Anonymous 20h

#1 and #8 are literally contributing to r@PE culture. Yall are the reason people don’t take men being r@aped seriously enough.

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Anonymous 23h

Stop messaging me asking how big it is wtf 😭😭😭

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Anonymous 1d

The way this is sexual assault

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Anonymous 1d

sounds like a porn addict

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Anonymous 1d

Glad you got out of that relationship, sounds like a nightmare

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Anonymous 18h

Bro I’m sorry people are coming after you for this, you deserve better

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Anonymous 16h

Bruhhh why are all the comments on here so insane??? She clearly stopped giving a fuckkk abt him bro- if a man said this to a woman everyone would be like “yesss leave him what an asshole” op deserves love too??

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Anonymous 16h

Pass the controller bro… LOL Jk I dated a sex addicted girl before so I know how it goes. Fun the first few months then I’m literally begging to not have sex

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Anonymous 1h

This comment section is a good show of why rape culture is so big still. We hear a man say “my gf was EXPLICITLY using me for sex and trying to coerce me into sex when I didn’t want to” and we think “oh that lucky guy.” What the fuck??? This is wrong on so many levels. I’m glad OP is out of this situation now. Being devalued and dwindled down to just a body is humiliating. Yall men who are saying “pass the controller” are just sex addicts who don’t care about love.

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Anonymous 1d

pass the fucking controller

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Anonymous 23h

one man’s trash is literally every other’s treasure

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Anonymous 22h

Let me make u feel better bb

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

But like I want to do things other than have sex yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

God forbid I want to do something other than have sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

once a day leaves plenty of time. u might be low test

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

We didn’t live together, saw each other 4 days a week max and all we ever did was have sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

maybe shes a nympho, not her fault

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I wasn’t her first sexual relationship and also “after seeing and feeling your dick I’m gonna be honest I love that way more than your personality now, anytime you try to suggest we do anything I’d always rather be having sex”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

so maybe ur just boring bro 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Dated for over a year before sex with no issues and everything was perfect and she was the loml and we’d spend the whole day together never running out of stuff to say or do together

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Anonymous 1d

I’m just relaying what happened and how upset I am to lose a girl that I could spend 5 hours with and it felt like 5 minutes

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Anonymous 1d

Just keep giving bad dick “blud”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Shit just gets annoying when I want to go to a movie or out to dinner out on a hike and she just wanted to fuck instead

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

People are giving you shit here but you shouldn’t be ashamed of wanting a full relationship. I mean a purely sex based relationship can be fun for a while, but eventually you want more.

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Anonymous 1d

Sex in the woods! Everyone wins!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Stfu

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

i’m sorry that’s terrible and honestly she’s a horrible person for that. if she wants a fwb she should go find that, it is completely understandable you want a normal relationship and i’m sorry she’s reducing you to sex. that sounds like it really hurts especially after a year. i feel like so often men aren’t shown the softness and love they deserve from their girl.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

Lmaoo 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

It’s ok to want more but maybe you guys should have just talked about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

And you ended it because of this simple issue? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 1d

“simple issue” and it’s blatant disrespect towards OP & a massive shift in the relationship. if she was a guy, people would accuse her of deceiving OP just to have sex…

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 1d

people act like men who don’t want constant sex are “lesser” men for it & it’s genuinely disgusting oml

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 23h

We did, and I broke up with her because she told me she had become only interested in sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 23h

I think it’s hard to get like the full situation across when I only have so many characters so people are assuming my problem is that she did want sex when really the problem was that she didn’t want anything else

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 23h

What hurt about it is that it didn’t start that way so for over a year, before we had sex our relationship was awesome, always talking, always hanging out, just spending lots of time doing lots of things but then when we started having sex it was like a switch flipped for her

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Anonymous 23h

She would’ve just said that we were wasting time when we could fit two rounds in before we even got the chance to do the hike and come back

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 23h

I’m gonna give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they just don’t understand what I’m trying to say because I only had a couple hundred characters. It seems like they think my problem was that she wanted sex at all when really I was okay having sex the problem was just that she ONLY wanted sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 23h

Yeah, it was hard but leaving was super hard too because I knew what she was like before so it still felt like I was leaving that too even know logically I knew she had become different

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 23h

that’s really all I want, other people are seeming to think I’m saying I don’t want sex at all when I’m not saying that

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 23h

I mean maybe one mature man’s trash is every other porn obsessed touch deprived man’s treasure. Yall immature for acting like it’s weird to want a relationship with more than sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

it was joke

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 23h

Sorry, I’ve just been defending myself from people saying I’m “low test” and dms saying I’m weird/stupid for ruining a relationship where I “didn’t have to do anything but have sex”. Didn’t mean to come off that strong

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

nah i get ur all good

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Anonymous 23h

😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

PASS THE CONTROLLER

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22h

Dude if you just want sex it’s really not that hard

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 22h

Yo what? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 22h

This is what I’m trying to say, these guys genuinely have sticks up their ass idk if it’s because they’re porn addicted or touch deprived but why does everyone think that wanting things other than sex is a problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 22h

people are commenting and messaging me saying that “the dick couldn’t be that good” and it’s making me think that these guys are just bad at sex and they’re taking it out on me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

and you have every right to feel that way!! ignore what the ugly ppl are saying, coming from a girl who would rather been out on little adventures with my now ex than be having sex w him bc our adventures are where we had the most fun together and it’s what made me fall in love with him. go find your dream woman op!

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

Thanks!🤞🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 20h

So many people saying pass the controller and stuff like that it’s so weird

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Literally. I’m sorry that happened to u. You have the right to say no and not do stuff you don’t feel like doing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Bro I get ass. Ive been searching for a nympho for ages.

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 16h

It sucked a lot because the year before we had sex was great then once we started it got worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 13h

Idk why people are being so harsh when all I’m saying I want is to have a relationship with more than sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 13h

Idk why it’s just not allowed to not JUST want sex as a man

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

it’s baked into our society, this is what patriarchy really does to people

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