
This comment section is a good show of why rape culture is so big still. We hear a man say “my gf was EXPLICITLY using me for sex and trying to coerce me into sex when I didn’t want to” and we think “oh that lucky guy.” What the fuck??? This is wrong on so many levels. I’m glad OP is out of this situation now. Being devalued and dwindled down to just a body is humiliating. Yall men who are saying “pass the controller” are just sex addicts who don’t care about love.
i’m sorry that’s terrible and honestly she’s a horrible person for that. if she wants a fwb she should go find that, it is completely understandable you want a normal relationship and i’m sorry she’s reducing you to sex. that sounds like it really hurts especially after a year. i feel like so often men aren’t shown the softness and love they deserve from their girl.
I’m gonna give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they just don’t understand what I’m trying to say because I only had a couple hundred characters. It seems like they think my problem was that she wanted sex at all when really I was okay having sex the problem was just that she ONLY wanted sex
and you have every right to feel that way!! ignore what the ugly ppl are saying, coming from a girl who would rather been out on little adventures with my now ex than be having sex w him bc our adventures are where we had the most fun together and it’s what made me fall in love with him. go find your dream woman op!