Have an honest conversation with him outside of the bedroom and say you’d like to work on some of that stuff, then when you get in there tell him what you like and be open to trying new things (potentially embarrassing/funny experience) you should have fun and be comfortable with it, if he cares as much about your pleasure he will take it like a man

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Get a partner who listens better

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Here’s an idea stop letting losers put there tongue on your body

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If they don’t listen then get a new man

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Whatever you do when you masturbate is probably good direction for them, everyone has different preferences after all

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My girlfriend always listens to me in the moment when I tell her to move a little to whatever direction. If they aren’t listening then that’s a them problem that they need to work on if they want to keep having sex with you

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