Anonymous #2 9w

I mean i am currently giving another girl tips rn

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Anonymous OP 9w

Im happy to help anyone

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Anonymous OP 9w

Yes pls I’ll take em

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Anonymous #2 9w

Just dm me ill try and help

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Anonymous OP 9w

Can u post what u say, I'm curious

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Anonymous #3 9w

Tips are different for every person lmao but u can ask the other people who have messaged me ive been genuine

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Anonymous OP 9w

He has. He tailored the tips to my experience and me which is awesome

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Anonymous #5 9w

👍

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Anonymous #3 9w

he’s helpful! it’s def tailored and not perverted lol

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Anonymous #7 9w

LMFAOOOOO

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Anonymous #6 9w

Could y'all post them? 😭 I'm a guy and I'm just curious about what advice for ladies is

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Anonymous #3 9w

They can if they want

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Anonymous #7 9w

Sex is like pizza, even bad pizza is still pretty yummy

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Anonymous #8 9w

diva that might be a medical condition

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Anonymous #11 9w

yes but unfortunately men still get annoyed over it

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Anonymous #15 9w

Sorry guys I js wanted to be included 😭

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Anonymous #15 9w

Honestly, I regret losing my virginity. The girl I was with broke up with me like a week later. We only had sex a few times and didn't really get to know each other. She dumped me pretty soon after I felt like trash. Don't feel bad about being a virgin at ALL. If anything I think it's cool

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Around 40% of women experience pain with penetration at some point in their lives. It’s super common and those people still deserve to date and find love and have satisfying sex.

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Anonymous #4 9w

More reason for me to keep myself until I’m married, thank you so much for the encouragement! ❤️ and dw twin, you’ll find someone way better down the road I promise.

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Anonymous #15 9w

Honestly I think having sex with someone before marriage or discussing it VERY VERY thoroughly is honestly somewhat important to determine sexual compatibility. You'd be shocked at how much nuance there is to sex. I don't judge your decision at all. I'm used up so of course I'm jealous XD

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Anonymous #4 9w

I’ll also keep that information in mind that you very much 😭😭😭

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10-28% of females of reproductive age report recurrent pain during penetration so i am far from the only one, and it’s not like coochie pain is contagious

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Anonymous #8 9w

That sounds like vaginosis or a right pelvic floor my ex had that. Please don't have sex with people that get annoyed with you because of a medical condition. Build some level of trust and understanding. It goes a long way. Sed is incredibly vulnerable

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Anonymous #8 9w

I also experience this #8, and it always really helps to hear other women talk about it so thank you for commenting. Also if you haven’t you should read “Come as You Are”— I only just started it but I already love it and it has made me cry ✅. Good luck and since I’m sure you’ve also been pressured by many men as I have, remember that you don’t owe anyone your pain and you deserve to enjoy your sexual encounters

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Anonymous #4 9w

Apologies for the bad spelling it's been a long day and I have a concussion

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Anonymous #7 9w

Come as you are is a legendary book for women's sexual health. I like to read it openly on the bus and subway, anywhere in public really.

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Anonymous #3 9w

The advice is probably mostly "show enthusiasm for the other person" or like "bounce on it crazy style"

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Anonymous #4 9w

Nope

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Anonymous #4 9w

Ts so real

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Anonymous #4 9w

my fault OG

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Anonymous #6 9w

It's okay :)

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Anonymous #12 9w

Gonna be honest I feel like it's kinda easy to know. But guys are so easily pleased. Big things for me in my experience 1. Complete lack of enthusiasm, they don't care much about me or my pleasure. Maybe they'll give an unenthusiastic bj but they don't show enthusiasm via their eyes or touching 2. Lack of movement, they make you do alll the work 3-

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I would say 90% of the men I’ve been with have pressured me to have sex/ been immature at some point about me refusing. Rape culture is much more prevalent and subtle than you may realize, so it’s not as simple as “don’t have sex with random men or it’s your fault”. It’s not the woman’s fault if a man turns out to be not understanding.

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Anonymous #7 9w

Just curious. How does a guy pressuring to have sex or being immature about you saying no equal rape or rape culture? I think those are disgusting things but they seem far from rape. I'm not fully understanding

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Anonymous #4 9w

I am NOT saying that is rape. But rape culture encompasses a lot more than that. It’s a description of the aspects of the patriarchy that normalize rape, violence against women, lack of consent, prioritizing only men’s pleasure, and slut shaming. Guys regularly pressuring women to have sex is not rape but it does come from the fact they were conditioned to not prioritize women’s needs or enthusiastic consent

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Anonymous #7 9w

Not sure I appreciate being downvoted for trying to understand and engage respectfully but I really appreciate your response. I still don't fully understand why those things are rape culture or what that really is but I'm sure that's a much bigger question than yak's character limit allows. Thank you!

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Anonymous #4 9w

It wasn’t me that downvoted 🤷‍♀️ I’m not sure I’m going the concept justice. Basically what I’m trying to get at is when you pressure someone for consent and don’t care if they are comfortable, it feeds into a culture where consent and whether women WANT to be having sex doesn’t matter as much. But you should definitely look into the concept more if you haven’t heard of it.

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Anonymous #7 9w

I'll research it more thank you

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Anonymous OP 9w

idk how to dm 😭😭😭 but i want tips

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Anonymous #19 9w

How old are you

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